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Some guys are very up front about the things they like, they put forth a whole list.

If there's a true "kink" it's pretty common for people to mention that. However, I've had long term friends who waited a while before telling me, because they wanted to know I wouldn't laugh at them (I'm sorry that happened to you).

Others want to see what the chemistry between you to is like, and they'll guide you in the moment. I tend to be that way myself. I find that's better then a list, since it makes me feel less like an actress with a script.

Certainly as you see each other more and more, you share more. Every now and then, one partner will even help the other realize there's a new sensation they love.

MysteryAdmin1803 reads

Often when I meet a new provider (new to me), she'll ask me what I like and what I'm into.  Since I don't know much about where her head is regarding sexual matters, I will either mention some things that aren't the most "deep" or lust inspiring or I'll find some other way to dodge the question.

As I get to know the lady better, I tend to open up a bit and let more of my personal "kink" out.  :)

How open are you with the providers you see?  One time, I asked a provider I had seen several times previously to wear a particular outfit I brought with me and she laughed.  I was so embarrassed, I didn't want her to wear it even though I proceeded with the session (sometimes the "lower head" wins out... :D).  

Do you spill da beans when you're with a provider (either new or someone you've seen a few times) or do you hold some things back?  If you hold things back, do you tend to hold back a lot?

Peace...

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laurensummerhill1382 reads

Some guys are very up front about the things they like, they put forth a whole list.

If there's a true "kink" it's pretty common for people to mention that. However, I've had long term friends who waited a while before telling me, because they wanted to know I wouldn't laugh at them (I'm sorry that happened to you).

Others want to see what the chemistry between you to is like, and they'll guide you in the moment. I tend to be that way myself. I find that's better then a list, since it makes me feel less like an actress with a script.

Certainly as you see each other more and more, you share more. Every now and then, one partner will even help the other realize there's a new sensation they love.

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MysteryAdmin1491 reads

Thanks for the feedback.  :)  Your name brings to mind one of my favorite songs... :)

Interesting point about being given "the list" making you feel like an "actress".   If someone does give you their "list", do you feel obligated or compelled to do as many things on "the list" as possible and have your service been criticized if you didn't?

Peace...

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laurensummerhill1769 reads

I don't really get many reviews. And I haven't gotten a "list" for months.

But yes, if someone before meeting rhymes off a bunch of stuff I do feel a bit impelled to make sure things go a certain way.

However, truth be told, even when I go in thinking, "Okay, he likes this, this and this. Do those things,"  as the moment evolves and our lips are locked, if I'm into him, the list falls right out of my head and is quickly forgotten. Instance and desire take over and I just move with what feels good.

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hungry19511419 reads

Is that goddam "Mom raised a gentleman" crap gets in the way. I can sit here, and write about pussy, and tits, and cock, and fucking all day long, behind the relative safety of my keyboard. It's turns into a different story when I come face to face with a lady, and she asks me what I want, or what I like sexually. That's when I go into brainfreeze. There are things that you don't say to a lady. That's the way I was raised, and I don't know if it will ever go away. I think I've probably frustrated a couple of ladies with my inability to be more verbal with my desires, but for the most part, they've been very understanding, and their ability to "read" has been more than satisfying.

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MysteryAdmin1501 reads

Wow, excellent point!!!  I'm in the same boat even though I have found a way to "open up" a bit.  Even still, I sometimes find it difficult to express my likes or desires because of that you said, "There are things that you don't say to a lady."  :)

Peace...

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hungry19511112 reads

It does seem to get a bit easier after you get to know a lady a little better, but she's still a lady, and I still have to be a gentleman.

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