I know it’s not for everyone, and I am not sure if this is a safe place or not, but at my age condoms are something of a step down from masturbating, so… I get tested regularly and am always happy to share them along with my DL (as professional as I can be about it.  So… if anyone is comfortable with this, please reach out to me and we can find some time to hang out. Or,  If anyone has some intel I would be greatly appreciative.