this:

I meet the lady at her place.  She is dressed in just a skimpy bra and panty set.   She slowly undresses me while I just observe.

She then starts the shower and climbs in with me - we both luxuriate under the warm water.  We lather each other and take our time rinsing.   She kneels in the shower for a BBBJ to completion.    Again she touches me up where needed to be squeaky clean.

Out of the shower we dry off and I receive a great 1/2 hour massage - with emphasis on my face and head (the big head!).   Towards the end she says "please DATY...I need it badly!"

We then move into all the DFK, etc. while bringing me to life again.  Hopefully there is another pop and a time to rest and snuggle afterwards.

I expect this to take 2.5 to 3 hours.  That to me is the total GFE.

Gentlemen?  How does this sound?
CG

Sounds like a great time!  

I'm still refining what my "perfect" encounter would be.  Part of my problem is I've had some outstanding, yet different experiences with some ladies all of which were perfect, in terms of the actual experience, even though they were not scripted.  By this, I mean the events didn't unfold in an exact manner I would have in some fantasy but the events that did unfold opened my mind to new and much more improved fantasies.  

I'll see if I can put together a sample "perfect" experience to post.

Peace...

Sounds like the ultimate sensual spa experience. I'm sure if share this scenario with your next prospective date, she'll most likely warm to the suggestion.

I would see that it could be a problem to ask for on a first date but on a second you should absolutely be accommodated!

Men love head massages....I once slept with a musician who didn't bat an eyelash that he'd just spent the night cheating on his girlfriend but felt guilty for saying that I gave a better head massage than her!!

Funny, that was in the Haight! Are you him?? Lololol!

Brennan