I was visiting SF earlier this year and met a stripper in MBOT.  We went to a private booth and CBJ was offered and received.  Next day, I asked her to do a private show for me.  I showed her my money clip (15 $, just a peek and no counting) and offered to get a room in Ritz Carlton or Palace Hotel.  She told me that she has a BF, will only work in MBOT and declined the offer.  We continued chatting and I had a lap dance.  I did not say anything specific to her about the private show, just inquired about the possibility.  I had a sense at the time that she worried that I might be LE and had ambivalence about the offer.  At the end of the day, I had a feeling that she had become more comfortable with me.  I thought about going back to MBOT on my next visit and renewed my offer with more money.

Anyway, when I got back to LA, I met some wonderful providers and temporary pushed the idea aside.

Has anyone had experience on private show with a stripper?  Should I try again later this year?  With the amount I am considering, I know I could get some serious actions with a pricey provider down here in LA.  My mind is not always clear when sex is involved.

Any criticism or advice is welcome.

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and gotten negative responses each time. It seems that the stripper and escort occupations don't cross over as much as one would think.

My opinion: stick witht the escorts. I think strippers would expect too much and not have the capacity to deliver like an experienced escort.

I've never done it myself, but I have heard stories of guys meeting with MBOT dancers outside the club.  Usually though, the guy is a regular client for a while before that sort of thing happens.

Falcon

Evette the stripper shows alot of disdain for escorts so I know she doesn't escort.

Isn't it just a matter of degrees? I know that a couple of strippers I propositioned reacted as if they were offended that I would suggest anything like that. I'm thinking, hey baby, I just gave you 50 to masturbate in front of me.

People are odd.

Yes, Riker, that is the exact idea, too good to be an escort. It is beneath their dignity, too degrading to follow through with. Perhaps all the data that says dancers escort is a rank lie???

I figured that she has already perform CBJ on me so may be a private show is not so far off.

You are right to point out that since a stripper might not have as much experience as an escort, it will probably round up as a cold fish or just laid there situation.

It is simply hard to stop the fantasy.

that puts on the hot show for so many guys, and who I could visit in a club, watch dance, and then take her to a hotel.
It is quite a fantasy.

Hypocrisy is pretty rampant in the sex trade.  Most think its alright to draw the line where they think it should be, and don't like being judged for that.  But, they turn around and judge others who put the line elsewhere.  Hell, lots of dancers that will take money for sex look down on escorts just because they think escorts are less selective about their clients.

Falcon

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Got to tell you that I have had private shows from strippers in the past. I was a regular of hers and it took her getting fired from her place and she needed the money. That should let you know up front what she was like. I was too nice and decided to meet her. The first time was ok - I got the room and got a hell of nice CBJ for a reasonable amount. She called later in the week saying she needed more money - and the sex was less then spectacular. It seems the dancers like the protection of the club - they know they are not on thier own.

Also - I have been with a couple of providers and dancers in San Fran including evette - there are some "negative feelings" out there about evette!!! She seems to dis the providers and the providers are not very fond of her. I have even heard the women @ MSC rip the shit out of her. As a matter of fact, one of them almost refused to dance for me because I had seen evette!!

Bottom line - from a guy that did it, I wouldn't do it again. Good providers are much better IMHO.

It's probably easier to find a provider who can dance. Anyone know of any provider who can put on a good pre-show before the feature?