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I was looking at the So Cal section of an ad site  that (ahem) thinks it's slick and that i'll call X, and noticed a very attractive lady offering Ultimate Girlfriend Experience with extra fee and testing required. And that got me thinking.

I've been in this hobby for 25 years (though much of that was in a country where it's legal, and there was a 12 year gap where I did none) and not only have I never done BBFS, though a few times I'm pretty sure it was available, the thought of it horrified me. Disease, pregnancy, just way too risky.

But now I'm hitting the age where I get constant junk mail for the AARP and I'm not so sure anymore. Maybe because in my 25 years (during which I've been careful) I've never gotten anything worse than a depleted bank account. Maybe because I don't know how many years of this I have left. But for whatever reason I feel more open to the idea. No, I haven't and no, I probably won't. But the 'OMG NO- Absolutely out of the question' reaction is much more a "Probably not a good idea, but I'd sure be tempted."  

So... ladies and gents...  
Have you?
Would you?
Are you glad you did or didn't

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This is not a good topic for a public forum and should be kept to private discussion groups or PM's.  While many veterans would understand about speaking in abstract terms, there will always  be the Newbies who name names, ask inappropriate questions, etc.  When you start talking about BBFS publicly, LE gets interested because it moves our hobby from private activity by two consenting adults to a public health issue.

everything was uncovered. But then you weren't allowed to kiss. Now everything is covered, but you can kiss to your heart's content. Since I love kissing, the hobby is much more enjoyable now.  

But I did have a lady offer it at the old place. We were doing cock shaft pussy play when she suddenly wrapped her legs around me, and tried to force my bare cock inside. Luckily, I was stronger. Never put a condom on so fast in my life.

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I will never understand the willingness of either party in a P4P world that would even consider doing BBFS.  Just so many things to go wrong.  One encounter and your life could be forever altered.  It that were to happen, you would have to disclose it or you face criminal and civil consequences.

I can count on one hand the number of women I've been with that protection wasn't used.  They were during long term, committed and monogamous relationships.

Back in the day?  Why wasn't I informed?  LOL!