I'll be in SF on business next week, and I'm really keen to find a provider who is into (gentle) fisting. I've done it with only 2 women, and it's been on my mind for months. I lurk here but I have plenty of recent OKs on P411.

I love it, but pls respond to the email on my site.

But I'm San Jose

Please don't email me here.  I don't have access to this mail system.  Please email me from the contact on my site.  I know I gave a bad link.  I'll give the correct one.

There are exceptions, but in general, a man's hand is too big to fist a woman. A man who is interested in watching fisting can invite a woman into his bedroom with his wife or girlfriend. Use a glove, because many times the vagina cannot withstand the dirt that everyone has under their fingernails. Use lube that does not have glycerin. Make sure the receiver is very, very turned on before initiating the fisting. Then let the orgasms begin!

My vagina is normal size, and though it can be painful, I can be fisted by most men IF they know what they are doing.  It can be painful, but most women I know into it are into a little pain.  The vagina stretches and goes back much like the folds of an accordion.  If you're just not into it, just say so.

...I'm very capable I've had a few lovers who, although well-endowed in the hand department, have managed to go all in, as it were