Do you consider yourself to be sexually confident?  If so, what is the basis of your confidence?  Past sexual experiences?  A mindset that you "know" what a sexual partner "wants" or "needs" such that you're convinced you'll be able to "rock their world"?

Have you had your confidence questioned or challenged by any particular experience you've had?

Does sexual confidence matter within the context of practicing "the hobby"?  Another way to ask this is, does sexual confidence matter when a guy is with a provider or a provider is with a client?

Recently, a friend described sexual confidence exuding from a guy she recently met and her comments got me wondering where the root of that confidence lies.  

For example, I might give off the impression of being sexually confident yet when I'm engaging in intimate activities with someone, I don't live up to the "hype" generated from my confidence.  

So, I wondered what your thoughts were on sexual confidence.  

Peace...