i saw an incall in hayward recently. She was very careful about not touching my jizz, but are there a lot of ladies who stay in the business if they are infected with HIV?

I don't think anyone could say if the independents in Hayward are clean, generally speaking. Statistically, the percentage of women with HIV is extremely low. It seems that it’s more difficult for a woman to contract it than a man, not to say they don’t or that they couldn’t carry and transfer it to you without actually contracting it.

I pay attention to a number of factors to try and discern whether a provider is clean.

First, their price; I’d like to say that the middle to upper range escorts consort with a higher class of self-respecting people, but that wouldn’t be fair. However, it may be fair to say that a provider charging 300 to 400 and working out of nice place is not fucking everyone with twenty bucks. What price does indicate is self-respect. Self-esteem and self-respect play the key role in how careful and clean a woman keeps herself. Those charging higher prices general do because they believe they’re worth it. A man paying them the money reinforces that and they feel good about themselves – generally speaking.

Secondly, their demeanor; people who respect themselves, typically respect other people and they mirror the kind of people they spend their time with.

Most importantly, how careful she is; the way she deals with you is generally the way she deals with everybody. If she’s very careful with you, checks you out thoroughly, makes sure you’re covered and all, she’s taking care of herself, and by default, you as well.

HIV is not the only thing to be worried about. Although HIV can be deadly, you’re at much higher risk of other STD’s.