I want very much to have an escort type experience with a dominatrix. I'm reluctant to bring it up with her. I don't want
the basic relationship to end if she were to be offended. I realize
that it would probably be more $$$ than the normal bdsm session.
Any suggestions? I'm hoping for something like a GFE with her for an hour.

you seek, and shouldn't (necessarily) be any increase either.

When you have your 'pillow talk', then just bring up various fantasies and things and see where it goes.

I have a regular in SF who has two ATF's, one who is a GFE and one who is dominatrix. Depending on his mood and what he desires determines who he'll see.

I don't fully agree with you Sedona...(think it's a first), that few could pull of both roles. I know I'm a GFE and I don't honestly think I could successfully pull off the role of a dominatrix. Then again, you'll never know if you don't ask. ;0)
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Have you checked out Dom Dominique? She gets great reviews and may be the best in the US.

Well thanks for caring sega but you're begging the question aren't you?   bare in mind that i recognize that the request for help is coming from me. however, one thing strikes me like a thunderbolt. you do not have any reviews that i could find unless sega's an alias. also.. my question is fairly pointed. i want to know what people think, especially any dominatrix reading this. about being approached by regulars for escort v bdsm type service.

I was a dominatrix for six years. To be blunt, if I wanted to be an escort, I would have advertised and marketed myself as one. There is certainly a wider client base for escorting and in my opinion it's easier in some ways and much less overhead to be an escort than a domme. Leather outfits, toys, equipment and dungeon decor and rentals are very pricey.

There are escorts who are into S&M scenes and willing to play who might be available for what you want. But if you have your sights set on a particular woman and this is a woman who has never advertised as an escort and is making a good living as a dominatrix and enjoys her job, I would say your chances aren't too great. If someone asked me I wouldn't be offended, but I would say no.

Doesn't hurt to ask though. You might ask if she offers another type of session other than S&M and go from there.

MM

It was always my understanding that those who perform dominatrix services do not have sex with their "subjects".  The outfits are fabulous though!!!