I keep seeing new reviews on new providers & all bad no bueno, so why do you fellas seem to keep using what is not good?

just like why guys use cityvibe. sometime you see a picture or two, and the woman just looks so good...why not try it out? maybe you find a diamond in the rough. unlikely, but i suppose it does happen...

instead of their big head.

because it is cheap

seems like the backpage listings are more referenced these days in light of all the negative press with CL lately (I guess) but I only use TER, redbook (for the central valley only) and reference services like P 411. Not one to TOFTT since it just seems to risky. But to each their own. One would hope to get on the TER whitelist and perhaps provider okays on a reference service like P411 to make it easier for all. But a simple question to providers, if a potential client is listed with say more than 3 okays on TER whitelist and something like P 411 with similar amount of okays is screening complete? Recognize that screening is a must so just curious as to providers thoughts. BTW Patricia will be down in the area Friday next week in the mid afternoon. Please Pm me on availability. Thanks!!!

i do not like cl or backpage other than it gives you an idea who might be availible on short notice..and then you can search reviews if need be.

I don't use CL but I do use other sources.
Why? because many ladies to not reply to inquiries!

I can send emails to 4-5 ladies just to get 1 reply!
I have my TER Fav's. But TER is not the best place to find FBSM ladies because most FS providers want to provide some FS with their service. If I want FS TER is great if I can connect.

I use CL because some of the ladies I have spoken to with high marks on reviews are total bitches on the phone. I like to be treated the way I treat others and that has not been my experience with some frequent posters from TER.

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I think while there may be some added risk as opposed to this site, there are still a lot of new hotties on CL advertising that haven't found sites like these yet!

Not everybody on CL is a rip off or rob.  I use CL and I think I'm truly a gem lol.  I just found out I had two reviews on this site, which brought me here...

I think you just need to be a little more extra on CL, but it is not a total bad site!

I think that is also what the previous poster was saying as well.  From my own personal experiences I have also spoken to some pretty RUDE ladies who post regularly on this site but have found many gems on CL.  The key for me is to talk to someone on the phone and see how it feels.  If she is a rude biotch on the phone then I go elsewhere.  Sooner or later enough people will have the same experiences and not call back and then she is out of work.  The one I am thinking of retired anyway but now she is back.  IMHO she should have stayed retired as she seemed unpleasant to talk to.