Well here is a new one for me
I received a text today from a provider I had seen in June who basically called me ugly. I had enjoyed my visit with her and even said so on the board. The only thing I might have done wrong is that I asked her for a reference. Boy she hurt me. Not sure why she did that

Thanks Arden
Maybe you are right
I guess from now on I'll get one those wrestling masks and wear that to my appointments

Posted By: Arden_Moon

One, I don't know what I woke up to this a.m. The guys posts seem to be sticking them with some very 'interesting' ladies.

I don't know when a man's appearance has every figured in, but take it as a "flip". Everyone has been getting pretty touchy about money, rates, etc.
Where the guys have been catty about rates without really contacting providers to check for specials. She may have flipped because things are slow and she felt like it was money from her pocket.
Commonly we all like to keep reach other safe, so it's not an issue.

I think money matters are making people not themselves lately. You will probably get an apology.

That's just crazy....LMAO

Wow! I just recently talked with a provider about this  last Friday and she made some interesting points similar to what Arden Moon said.  It was somewhat of an eye opener for me too.  Some providers apparently get a little funny when it comes to providing a reference and I think Moon has provided some good rationale.

Since you don't fill the board with posts, it wasn't too hard to figure out who you were speaking of.  I had passing thoughts of seeing her but probably not now.

See now my provider lady friend won't help me but she will tell EVERYONE how ugly I am

ah I really didn't want anyone to figure that out. She is a good provider I enjoyed my time with her. Somehow I must have hit a nerve unintentionally. I don't want to ruin her business. You should see her.

Well I didn't get an apology and considering the number of people I've seen over the years you would think at least one might so I'm not so bad. I think the truth hurts and that I probably need to drink more today.  Man good thing providers don't rate the clients. I 'd hate to see my rating.

squirt on  him- how come I didn't know this was an option?

what on earth is that about? like mike, i did some poking on the board, and have a good guess to who you are referring to. i had passing thoughts like mike, but i can absolutely guarantee i would never see her now. raincoat, you seem like a good guy, but i wonder if editing your review is an option, if only to include this caveat. it's very magnanimous for you to want people to still see her even though she pulled this offensive move, but i wouldn't want to set up an appointment with her and catch her on one of her bad days. yikes.

Hi JohnD
see now I'm worried because I never reviewed her. So to the extent you've looked at my reviews none of those ladies was involved with this at all.Sorry for any confusion.

She really doesn't have a whole lot of presence on this board anyway.  I mostly hobby when I travel now so my interest wasn't that keen to begin with.

that was my fault, raincoat. i looked at your reviews and your board posts hastily, and temporarily forgot that your last review was sometime in the spring, yet i saw that you responded to a provider's thread later than that saying that your session was good. i'm assuming that is who you are referring to in this thread. i don't want to mention names, but i think i see who you're referring to.

That is messed up that a provider would call somebody ugly. Bad juju.

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Shouldn't be such a surprise... I'm supposedly one of the good guys, but I've been outed three times (TER,a blog, and Twitter) and have been referred to in the past as

a fat pimp on disability - not true, im not a pimp, and im not on disability
fat fuck on a fat trike - not true, my trike is a lean mean gorgeous machine
biguglyassholewhothinkshecanusebeingamodtogetfreesex - not worth further comment

(((shrug)))

natasha, you would be amazed at some of the insults hurled by both provider and hobbyist that never see the light of day. Bad juju indeed.