Back when I was in my 20 and, after many dates leading up to, finally made love to a certain beautiful girl friend, I came three times without us separating. The first one was as I entered, I was so excited, but she didn't realize, and I vowed to pretend it didn't happen and soldiered on. In very little time I was as hard as before and we had a prolonged session. When I came again, I was surprised to find that I was still able to continue and we went for a lot longer until I came the third time (she thought it was the second). I have never duplicated that feat. I was unusually inspired, she was gorgeous and possibly my future bride (we eventually parted ways over Frank Zappa and all that implies.)
Fairly recently, after I entered the hobby, I became aware of the "cum after the cum" which I have described in a few of my reviews. Basically, after I cum, if my partner doesn't stop doing what she's doing, I go into a post-cum orgasm that is far more intense the the initial cum. It can last for several minutes and it's amazingly intense. Probably a lot of guys would be over-sensitive and this would hurt, but lucky me. I noticed in a porn promo that this happens to Peter North. The scene: in an ad for a website, he is being blown by a pretty girl who is also talking to you about the website. She brings him to ejaculation, then looks back at the camera and tells you to go the the website being advertised. She is not paying attention to the fact that she is continuing to stroke him as she talks to you. After delivering her lines she looks back and sees Peter twitching like a fish out of water as she pumps him, and she is genuinely surprised to see him twitching like that. I have danced on the edge a few times, withholding completion, but it takes concentration and it is more like sex for sport rather than loving-joining. Alas this is mostly moot for me now at almost 70. I'm lucky if I can cum even once.I am still thinking about Chloe's post about MSOG for lack of a better term. The hobby has been quite an adventure. I have seen ladies have their first squirt and master squirting and I have always been excited by multi orgasmic ladies! So I ask are there any multi orgasmic men out there? If so tell us about your path to bliss mastering bliss!
In Chloe's post people talked about multiple cups.. meaning how many times can you cum during a session. But being multi orgasmic is not the same. I think why I am a student of edging is because I am in search of that multiple orgasm. For most men once you reach that point of no return it is all over in just a few seconds. But what if before you reached that point you could stay there for a long time going to the edge and back. a true multiple orgasm. Feeling that sensation without ejaculation.
Ant women experienced in helping a man achieve this state of bliss? What would you do to help?
And for the men what is your interest in having a multiple orgasm?
Hey lover!
Great topic!!
It takes much energy work(Tantra) and I need multiple hours to accomplish it but if we work together any man can have them. I have made men as young as 30 reach it and men in their 60s too. The feeling is described as after you reach the first climax, immediately a second wave comes on with more ejaculate.
I haven't gotten a third or more yet ...
Also the other side is to prolong the feeling of the orgasm. Making it last for seconds to minutes to an hour. I've reached the minutes point and am still trying for the hour mark ![]()
It just takes a man with the time, budget and will to make it happen. Usually an overnight encounter can produce the result.
Hope this helped some!!
Kissez that make you crazy,
Chloe
My understanding is that the key is to to separate the orgasm from the ejaculation. While most assume they are one of the same, they are actually separate. Tantra practictioners believe that when men ejaculate, they are losing part of their chi or life force, so they get very good at holding back the ejaculation. It is essentially edging to the extreme. They have learned to get muscle control to the point that they can let an orgasm happen, but in that fraction of a second have the control to hold back on the ejaculation, which can allow them to maintain an erect penis and have additional orgasms (as long as they continue to chose to not ejaculate). Apparently, the muscle control is similar to the feeling when you try to stop urine flow midstream. Mentally, you can picture how difficult this is...letting the waves of orgasm proceed while at the same time having the discipline and muscle control to slam on the brakes! I certainly don't have this skill, but it is my understanding this takes weeks/months of dedicated practice. Good luck!
The first time I experienced the "climax" without ejaculate was while doing my peep shows.
A friend/ex of mine came in with my lunch and I said how about a show.
He went in and pleasured himself for me. I watched while touching myself and he tensed up but didn't cum. That night I mentioned he must have blue balls and he said, oh I came earlier. I was surprised and we discussed it. He told me it's not easy and feels weird at first like pressure but after he acclimated to the sensation he actually enjoys that followed by a HUGE load for the finale. He is asexual so mutual masturbation was really enjoyable when we would play.
I'm not familiar really with the edging other than tease and denial so maybe that's an area I can focus on more!
Thanks for the reply I always wondered if it was possible to have one solo... I get more relaxed with a partner.
And as far as edging, there is a whole other aspect to it beside tease and denial. Perhaps edging is not quite the right term but anything that can produce multiple or significantly extended orgasms is worth exploring in depth. I am available for practice sessions if you want LOL!
Yes I have read that too... But have you made the journey?
Back when I was in my 20 and, after many dates leading up to, finally made love to a certain beautiful girl friend, I came three times without us separating. The first one was as I entered, I was so excited, but she didn't realize, and I vowed to pretend it didn't happen and soldiered on. In very little time I was as hard as before and we had a prolonged session. When I came again, I was surprised to find that I was still able to continue and we went for a lot longer until I came the third time (she thought it was the second). I have never duplicated that feat. I was unusually inspired, she was gorgeous and possibly my future bride (we eventually parted ways over Frank Zappa and all that implies.)
Fairly recently, after I entered the hobby, I became aware of the "cum after the cum" which I have described in a few of my reviews. Basically, after I cum, if my partner doesn't stop doing what she's doing, I go into a post-cum orgasm that is far more intense the the initial cum. It can last for several minutes and it's amazingly intense. Probably a lot of guys would be over-sensitive and this would hurt, but lucky me.
I noticed in a porn promo that this happens to Peter North. The scene: in an ad for a website, he is being blown by a pretty girl who is also talking to you about the website. She brings him to ejaculation, then looks back at the camera and tells you to go the the website being advertised. She is not paying attention to the fact that she is continuing to stroke him as she talks to you. After delivering her lines she looks back and sees Peter twitching like a fish out of water as she pumps him, and she is genuinely surprised to see him twitching like that.
I have danced on the edge a few times, withholding completion, but it takes concentration and it is more like sex for sport rather than loving-joining.
Alas this is mostly moot for me now at almost 70. I'm lucky if I can cum even once.
Laughing @ Frank Zappa bit