Hi Boys,
Do you feel comfortable asking your ATF to experiment? Or would you look for someone new to try things?
And on that note is it exciting for you to even try new things? Can't wait to hear your thoughts... Hugs & Kisses, Jai Loren

I'm always open to trying somthing new and exciting. I think I'd be comfortable asking both my ATF and someone new to experiment. In fact, Jai, since we're getting together in July, and we've never met before, if you're willing, I'd love to experiment with you!

I think you always need two types of provider. One is a pse,one is a gfe, depending on your mood. AS always ymmv.

As a beginner raquetball player, my mentor told me the best way to improve techniques and skills was to play with someone more experienced and better.  Although reserved, I've found it rewarding to ask what works best for her in a session. Some innovative techniques, positions and experiences for me has been the result. I am still looking  for good mentors/teachers.

I would have no problem asking my ATF to try something new, and I would understand if she said no.  I would expect the same from her, as well.  I'm all for experimentation, to a certain point.  I don't need to try some things to know I would not like them.  And I'm sure the same goes for her...and you.

I've felt comfortable asking a ATF to experiment it is only when she is not comfortable doing those things do I then look elsewhere. Yes, love to try new things, if not why play?

Hi Jai- interesting questions.  I for one don't feel comfortable asking for new things from my ATF. I fear blowing a good thing.  Hence, I tend to seek others who might meet those needs.  I do think it is exciting to try new things.  For me, I love it when someone does something new and wild- some who have suprised me (in a good way) are Kladia, and Asian Ashley.

Im blessed. My current real woman has said no to nothing, so far. We're off for a week in Cancun, adn I'd love to geta third, sexy latina, involved.

Never done this, Help please!