I posted this on the national board...

you're just hurting yourself... you know it's all checmical reaction in your brain... i give you a couple of weeks and you'll forget about her... time will heal!

That is without any doubt one of the most touching letters I have ever read. I had the pleasure of meeting you briefly in chat and on the SD board, and your letter to your ATF is heartfelt, it confirms what I already believed in my brief cyber relationship with you, you are a truly nice guy. I am sorry that this reality had to become your reality, but it happens more than you know, and sometimes it happens on the other side of the fence. Good luck, I hope that I will eventually have the good fortune to meet you when I do visit SD in December. Hugs, Dana

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what is there to heal?

Spaceghost, I know of what you speak. I, too, had a real sweet favorite and thought it was last for quite a while. However, she had to leave the area due to some problems here. We had shared several phone calls and maybe an e-mail or two to keep things alive, but even those are no more too.

I sent her several just to let her know I cared, but she soon disappeared without a trace or even a note. I still check my e-mail and even these boards with hope that she will return some day. The old saying goes, "hope springs eternal."

Good luck and best wishes, my friend. You are not alone here and are among friends.

But I am an engineer, and enjoy talking about science... especially with a girlfriend that loves to read, and has a quest for learning. Minds can be as sexy as bodies.

Thanks for your kind post, and I definitely look forward to meeting you in December.  Oh, and don't be sorry... I'm a truly lucky guy to have had the opportunity to meet and spend time with someone as groovy as she.