I’m new to this… But, I’ve been around the block of life more than a few times and I believe I have a handle on the etiquette.  My struggle is finding balance between apprehension and excitement.  I have been researching and reviewing provider pages and reviews for days…today I jumped and scheduled with a popular and well reviewed GFE provider in San Diego.  My apprehension is two-fold.  First, I lost a child in a car accident a two years ago and emotionally things have been pretty numb on multiple levels and fronts… I’m not going to get into all of that and I don’t even want you to imagine it.  However, connecting on an intimate level has me somewhat concerned… I want that intimacy, but…  Secondly, it has been a while since I’ve experienced pleasure with a beautiful woman (other than a “rub & tug).  In the past, I was never concerned about PE, but damn… I am now!!  LOL!!  I guess I’ll just see how things go… Or, should I give myself a pop before I meet her?  That seems like kind of waste!!   I’m not sure why I posted this…any feedback is appreciated.  Have a great day!!

If you speak to her one on one that may help you to have both those feelings put into proper perspective.
As a mom Im sorry to hear of your loss.. : -(
You made a great decision Im sure on who you chose..Kudos for your post as that speaks volumes on your sincerity..
Enjoy the holidays and remember if you"pop" quick Im sure a second time in that session will definately be an option
Besos from me to you
Sincerely
Lorena de Leon

I'm not sure why you thought it might be a good idea, but don't.

If you're afraid you might pop too soon, don't worry.
You can have more than one. Your lady friend will appreciate your passion. Perhaps you have several in you.

If you want to get rid of the nervous tension, Don't do it.
Be open and upfront with the lady. "I'm really nervous!"
Most guys are. Your well-reviewed lady will be your best friend and show you a very good way to relax and calm down. Save that energy for your time together.

Save your energy and reserves for the session and just let it happen.
Don't think in terms of what to say and what to do first. You're meeting a stranger for the first time so, relax and get acquainted. Talk about neutral things (the commute there is always a good starting point for the nervous.) She's pretty. Pick out the things you find particularly attractive and mention what you enjoy about her appearance. Get familiar with the color of her eyes. Touch her hands. Caress the side of her face. Don't rush.

Unlike a blind date, you are not trying to persuade her. The future games are part of the plan, as it were. Let her drive and she'll lead you into ecstasy in a very relaxed way.

Sorry for your lose & take it easy.  Don't put, so much pressure on yourself.  I recommend attending a M&G to see a provider up close in person before shelling out lots on a date.  I can say that just because the lady is in the top 100, or a reputable provider doesn't always make her a winner!


YMMV

Happy Hunting!  I am sending you a pm too! xoxo

As often as I've been impressed

Thanks

I appreciate all of your comments, feedback and email

Think of it as anticipation and you'll cum again and again ..
You will have a great time if you did your homework!!
Xoxo
Chloe

Your such a sweetheart Lorena!

Happy Holidays to you and to those that read this tread.



Vivianna Love










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I wish there was a "Like" button here..... hehehe


Lorena, i  sent you a private note. ;o)  

Viv

You rule !! beautiful  woman you are inside and out!! xoxox to you
Lorena

You are an an elegant and enchanting woman and the connection we had was truly far beyond the physical.  Ah... yes, the "Window"  That was HOT!!  As was everything else!!  

chemistry!


i know ladies and gents who had a "fine" time with someone but didn't review or ding them over it. some people just don't click.

go to a meet n greet like miz-P said. there is the best place to chat someone up and see them away from the web (it's difficult to really HEAR people and understand what they are about when u can't see them face2face and their body language).

hope that helped

great reply miz-P

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