Wow! Lots of negative posts lately. Sad. So ... question for providers and hobbyists alike ...
What turns you off?  
Me? I'm turned off by providers that don't look anything like the photo's in their adds. I don't care how old the photo is, as long as the provider still looks like she does in the photo.  

One you touched upon. The other is not putting their phone on mute once I arrive.

i really hate when i send a specific request for wardrobe and the lady obviously didn't read it or just ignored it.  it's happened a few times to me.  makes me feel not so special.

Are u also known as AEJ?  Some others have confused you and I. I have read some of your posts and we do share many of the same views. I think others are confused because we are both honest and say things that some providers don't want to hear. Oh well I guess that's why this is called a "discussion" board and not an "AGREE with everything you say" board.  

Not sure what you are saying but sure - whatever.  At the very least you definitely are showing that you are stalking people by trying to impersonate them  Pretty scary stuff!

but seriously, not matching the pics (even blurry ones) is a pretty big letdown. I usually just go for a BBBJCIM and don't bother trying for a second pop.