I haven't seen anything on this topic, and would like some feedback from ladies and gents.  Ahem!

This is about the uninvited guest that comes around and not always predictable.  Yessss, that damned old Aunt Flo!  I try very hard to schedule around her.  But invariably, she shows up early, or late.  Often times gentlemen contact me months or weeks in advance as they are traveling in from other states for conventions etc.  Then she doesn't show for the days I scheduled off, and of course, shows up when I have dates planned far in advance sometimes.  I don't want to dissapoint people who have been courting our meeting for sometime.  

What is the best thing to do?  Offer a discount and work around it?  How does one do that without implicating illegal behavior?  God forbid!  Offer an arrangement with a girlfriend who is available?  (I do this often, but generally, the guys are dissapointed, especially when they had set things up far in advance as I request).  It is just such an icky hassle for sure.  There are ways to work around it on light days, but that is when Murphy's Law tends to kick in.  Pray for smaller guys?  But NOOOOO, that is when all of the Ron Jeremy's show up.  Any suggestions?

That was Jeremy's nickname, and don't ask me how I know. :P

Seriously, though...a couple of things.

First, I myself, and several men I know, don't mind working with "The Curse" at all.  As such, and as I think there are many men who would be "okay" with it (especially if they were locals or sporadic regulars), so I think it is worth giving them the choice if you feel comfortable with them.  I wouldn't expect a "discount" at all, especially with someone as well-reviewed as you...I am sure you have many ways to make things fun (however, that's just me).  For those who might want it, though, you could just say you can work out the details later.  Worst that can happen is they say "Let's just reschedule".

There is also a product a provider friend of mine hipped me to that is something you can use in these scenarios that blocks your flow, especially on low days, kind of like a barely noticeable sponge or block.  I have the article at home, so if you want any info on it, PM me and I will send you the link.

I remember a thread on the National board about this a few weeks ago...how to deal with periods.  My suggestion was the "old fashioned way"...put a couple of towels down!  It is as natural as pubic hair...uh...wait a minute...

Thanks for the reassuring post, I thought it was something I said. hehe cya next week

IMO:

Give the option to work around (if that is an option at the scheduled time) or reschedule and leave it to the guy.  (From what I've heard your "work around" is pretty damned good.)  I don't know what to say about the Ron Jeremys of the world.  Luckily (?) that is not an issue with me.  

Re the discount, I suppose the only way to work around the legal issue, if you feel compelled to offer a discount (which is very sweet of you, I might add) is to offer it after the fact and not before.

Thanks for the feedback guys.  Well, I am aware of a product, and do like it.  It is called "Instead". It is basically a diaphram, but of course is helpful on light days, but even then, meeting someone who is larger or very, very agressive, often causes additional flow even once period has ended for a day or two, or can trigger your period a bit early.  Also, with bigger guys, it doesn't stay in place or bends. These are really only good for prevention when expecting or very, very light days at the end.  

Honestly hadn't seen anything on this topic before.  I did have a couple of reviews that reflected this problem and it is very embarrassing for both parties when a period is triggered, or brought back on from activity.  Or when wearing the shield as added protection.  Really hoping for consensus.

Hi Jenni!

Unfortunately, it sounds as if Aunt Flo may be on the scent and suspects something. Who knows how they do it but, her behavior sounds suspiciously like it is her aim is to check up on you and see what's going on or, hoping to catch something more.  Sorry! The only thing you can do and of course, the last thing you want to have to do, is confront her and straighten her out on the matter and tell her to schedule her visits. You can always remind her that like her once upon a time, you are an unattached lady who would like to entertain once in awhile and would prefer avoiding embarrassment. Nothing more. She will certainly understand.

I have often wondered how providers deal with that problem.

As a solution I have known some women who use birth control to simply skip over the 7 placebo pills.  The result is absolutely no visit from "Aunt Flo".

Interestingly, there is a company attempting to limit the "monthy curse" to the "quarterly curse" by employing the same method. Link Attached (hopefully)

Banana

about your monthly visitor.  We know enough about the female body to know it is hard to predict exactly when "Aunt Flo" decides to drop in. But shouldnt you know within 2-3 days either way before confirming an appointment and steer away from seeing us that week? We pay big bucks to be with a lady and every gent wants their money worth. Personally, I thank a lady for the heads up and an opportunity to reschedule with her.   I want her at her peak performance. I realize of course out of town visitors who plan far in advance may not have that luxury.

It would be GOOD to hear how the other providers deal with AUNT FLO.

... no matter what approach you choose to deal with this problem.
The mention of the Depo injection(Depo-provera) on the thread you started on the National board may be an option.

You are a bright and informed woman and I'm sure you know that there are potential side effects and risks associated with most any medication. These risks can be more pronounced depending on your general state of health and lifestyle habits such as smoking or use of alcohol, and any family or personal history of disease such as breast or cervical cancer.

My guess is that Depo-provera is relatively safe, but as with something such as this consultation with your doctor or a practitioner at Planned Parenthood etc. is called for, and I'm sure this requires a prescription.

Here are a couple of links to sites that give general information
and answer some questions about Depo-provera.

One is a site for teen women's health issues but I'm sure you won't mind since you are such a KID at heart

http://www.youngwomenshealth.org/femalehormone2.html

There are also dietary issues to consider with this medication, especially if you have a predisposition to or family history of osteoporosis

As for how to deal with your clients if this problem arises after setting something up I think in part you have answered your own question. There have been some other options mentioned here and on the National board.
I think in part it is one of those things that has to be handled on a case by case basis. Of course one of the key things is communication, as timely as possible. I think it will depend in part on how high DATY is on the menu with respect to the guy. It's a pretty high priority with me but others may be less interested, in which case a work around is more probable.

Having read many of your reviews you have a knack for making such work arounds way FUN. I for one could make an exception to DATY just to experience how fun and creative you can be Jenni.

Yes this is a nice community.

Thanks for sharing your thoughts, take care of yourself.

Now I'm off to DC for a little R&R. If I happen to encounter "bush" it won't be dubya that's for sure, LOL


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I think that your health and comfort is paramount in this situation. With your outstanding reputation only true gentleman should be allowed to be in your presence and therefore be gracious and understanding of your condition at the time. Only you can make the decision whether or not to receive visitors when this occurs. "Listen to your body" and you will know. On a personal basis it doesn't bother me, I have my "Wings" and have no problem being on a couple of soft cotton towels with a beautiful lady as long as she isn't in any discomfort. Best of luck on your decisions.

Just tell the prince that there'll be more of you to love!

There probably isn't a one size fits all answer for this one, but the best thing to do is to be up front about it and offer to reschedule.  That said, I can't imagine anyone who has seen you before wanting to reschedule....and I don't think a discount is necessary...for the quality of service you provide, your prices seem to be discounted as it is....

More posts like yours T*******S and the BS level on this board will go up exponentially.

except maybe it's Uncle Fester who visits instead of Aunt Flo.  While males are usually horny all the time, there have been occassions where I've scheduled in advanced and been tired, uninspired, or been simply overtaken by events to the extent that it becomes questionable to continue with an appointment.  What to do?  

your suggestions are good: either postpone, suggest an alternate, or maybe extend the occassion with a lot of non-physical activity, and then replace Aunt Flo's participation with a few other Acronym Relatives.

you're a creative enough gal, you'll work it out.  JENNI ROCKS!  

Hey Jenni - No offense and I'm sure it must just be me, but isn't there some other place to exchange this type of info like maybe private email with some providers?

I agree with this.  I was once with a provider who didn't tell me until Aunt Flo walked into the room and joined us.  She essentially hopped off to got take care of things...it sort of ruined the mood.  

In that case I would have appreciated some sort of explanation beforehand; a discount or offer to make things right next time would have helped me feel better about it afterward.

I also posted this on the National Board.  I recieved alot of very cool tips, as well as information on products.  As for interrupting my natural functions with drugs, I will not do that.  Certainly, there are days I simply must cancel.  But then there are lighter days, as mentioned or...the ambiguity of when she will visit that I was hoping for feedback or product suggestions.  I sure didn't expect this much conversation, but it is cool.  Amazing how easy it is to talk about anything here isn't it?



Jenni

i know the perfect answer lose wieght  girls under 100 pounds dont get them .  problem solved

Well..."Aunt Flo" never calls before showing up!!!  I've always thought that "she" will cum on a certain day and then "she" shows up early or later than expected.  Some ladies do know a day or so ahead but there are some ladies as myself that gets triggered during a visit and then the next thing you know..."Aunt Flo" knots on the door and say "she's" here for a few days....then you have to do the last minute cancellation because you have a visitor in town for a few days.  I've had to cancel to gents an hr or so before the appt because it got triggered.  A lot of the gents are disappointed but do understand you have a visitor for the next few days.  It's kinda hard to tell "her" to go away and cum back another day.  If it was that easy...I won't have any.  =)

If you don't like what was posted, then move on. You do know how to do that, don't you?

Although I did get plenty of ideas from the ladies, I origionally posted to find out a bit of consensus from the gents regarding having to cancel because of the issue at hand.  As I said, I don't see alot of locals.  I do mostly outcall to visiting gentlemen who book far in advance.  Sorry if you were offended.....

don't read the thread.  You're like the people who listen to Howard Stern and then complain about the content of the program.  TURN OFF THE RADIO, FOR GOD's SAKE!

Any subject should be fair game.

Th gal I see all the time is on this Depro-provera and definitely make scheduling with her a breeze. She ready anytime I am. Which would be every day, lol, except the budget only allows once or twice a month. The only side effect I've noticed with her is that it makes her drive like a maniac, lol.