I know that this stuff happens from time, even from top notch providers. I would say inform those who PM you and do not right a review. I mentioned this before but I had an issue with a top notch provider and had a crazy experience. When I posted a review I got flamed, called a liar and had to leave the site for a few years. This was in 2004 and I had 25+ solid reviews under my belt as well as being a respected member on here. After that I could not get a date and got blacklisted. So do yourself a favor and do not post where everyone can see and just use PM.
PS on another note, i had a provider show up once (she is retired now) high as hell. She ended up running through my glass sliding window and smashing is to pieces. It wasn't a bad experience just more of an expensive. She was a firecracker!
Maybe I'm being paranoid but, one of TER's San Diego top 10 came over and performed in a kind of psycho (maybe under the influence) way despite averaging above 9. In some ways it was the worst experience I've ever had with a beautiful naked lady. In fact things were going wonderfully BEFORE the clothes came off...
What she SAID and what she DID was such a shock that I needed a reality check, and so I called a few of my provider friends; they all WANTED me to immediately post a review. But instead of doing that, I emailed the lady my concerns and told her that before I posted a review, I'd give her a chance to explain herself to me. I know she got the email because 15-minutes after I sent it, she responded by forwarding to my phone the text I sent her with my out-call home address. I got the definite impression she was THREATENING "I know where you live, so if you want to post that review get ready for some payback."
So what does the board have to say? I will of course not ID her here, but should I share some quotes and factual descriptions? I care about the members of TER community, and I feel it's my obligation to inform, so others don't go through a similar experience.
and if she is insinuating that "i know where u live" i suggest adding that to the review.
i HOPE she reads this posting of yours and replies to you with an explanation and perhaps a refund/re-do. if you don't get a reply by the time this posting is off the first blog page for san diego discussion i think you should submit an honest account of what happened.
she "perfomred in kind psycho (maybe under the influence) way despite averaging above a 9". If in fact you rated her above an average of 9 then how can that possibly be one of your worst experiences? And if you really have an issue please post under your real handle instead of posting this disjointed crap under a pussy alias. Get some balls homey or homegirl for that matter or for whatever reason. Can't even begin to imagine how a provider could ever remotely give me the impression they were threatening given some simple due diligence. And could all you clowns posting your crap please make this feeble site a bit more meaningful by sticking with your real review handle so one might reasonbly attempt to attach some meaning to a post. I mean, jeez fucking louise, how could one even post here under a fuc$kin alias and expect to get any respect?
Dear Newt you need to read his post better. He said she is in the top 10 and averages 9s. He didn't say he rated her a 9. In fact, his whole post is about giving her a chance to explain herself before posting the review and in return he got the text with his home address. I think his assumption that she was threatening him is reasonable. Why else would she text that? Take a chill pill Newt. I mean, in my opinion you jumped all over him for no reason whatsoever.
Posted By: newtonklv
she "perfomred in kind psycho (maybe under the influence) way despite averaging above a 9". If in fact you rated her above an average of 9 then how can that possibly be one of your worst experiences? And if you really have an issue please post under your real handle instead of posting this disjointed crap under a pussy alias. Get some balls homey or homegirl for that matter or for whatever reason. Can't even begin to imagine how a provider could ever remotely give me the impression they were threatening given some simple due diligence. And could all you clowns posting your crap please make this feeble site a bit more meaningful by sticking with your real review handle so one might reasonbly attempt to attach some meaning to a post. I mean, jeez fucking louise, how could one even post here under a fuc$kin alias and expect to get any respect?
no alias on your part so I apologize for that part. just hit reply and on that function it all comes up as black fonts instead of blue for the real folks. But I do wonder about a 9 performance and yet still having problems. Could you throw me a Pm since I've seen lots of the top 10 in many cities and never had any problems.
All great ladies have off times ..She shouldnt have threatened you (that is not professional) the other ladies may have wanted you to post a review for you to "dethrone her" I sincerely Think maybe try talking to her ...Hopefully she WONT be confrontational... Please give her the benefit of the doubt and please give it a few days to subside and talk or email again.. Than make your decision.. Again,Im sorry to hear that you went thru that.. Sincerely from my heart Lorena De Leon
Living in a society which is governed by laws, your option to resort to law enforcement if and when someone wishes to carry out a threat, would be very limited in this case, as for obvious reasons, you will be implicating against yourself for your admission of having broken the law in the first place!
You'll have to ask yourself as to what you are going to gain versus the risks? If she is indeed one of the top SD providers, she will most probably have that review purged and expunged, you will be blacklisted and on top of that, your potential protection against serious threats would practically become self-defense. If she has done this to you, rest assured that she has done it to others and the fact that she has been getting away with it, is not something that I would encourage in any shape or from, but I would seriously err on the side of caution if I were you, for the aforementioned reason!
TER venue is far from perfect and SD being a small Hobby community for a large so-called cosmopolitan city, is a minefield of pseudo nepotism and protectionism with regards to some of its top providers. It is terrible that a bad apple here or there, is seriously effecting the whole cart in this marketplace, but seriously weigh the risks of your decision as the odds are currently stacked against you!
1. Protect yourself first and foremost - $&@# not using an alias - alias away - no one is going to look out for you but you. 2. DO NOT REVIEW - if you feel threatened no need to poke the bear. It is after all, a hobby! You're going to put your reputation, relationships, finances at risk for me on a public forum? You don't know me! You're under no obligation. 3. Please PM me and anyone who asks with her info so we can stay clear.
So many amazing, classy, once in a lifetime ladies here in SD and you get to draw the short straw. I feel your pain!
LOOK OUT FOR #1 and protect the rest of us behind the scenes!
I know that this stuff happens from time, even from top notch providers. I would say inform those who PM you and do not right a review. I mentioned this before but I had an issue with a top notch provider and had a crazy experience. When I posted a review I got flamed, called a liar and had to leave the site for a few years. This was in 2004 and I had 25+ solid reviews under my belt as well as being a respected member on here. After that I could not get a date and got blacklisted. So do yourself a favor and do not post where everyone can see and just use PM.
PS on another note, i had a provider show up once (she is retired now) high as hell. She ended up running through my glass sliding window and smashing is to pieces. It wasn't a bad experience just more of an expensive. She was a firecracker!
got to this thread a little late but can relate to your story about not writing it here ....I too had to leave my TER board when I stepped on the wrong providers toes she had powers with TER and the "group at the time" so me being a newer provider was dumped for just spite it took many years to return and now I say nothing ......
Once, maybe 4 or 5 years ago, I visited a very well respected and well reviewed icon of a provider here in San Diego. She had moved away to Arizona, and was back for a visit. When I arrived at her hotel, she was obviously under the influence of something: she had silly, disjointed speech, a little uncoordinated. She was in no shape to participate in what I was expecting. I talked, waited. She laid down and undid her blouse. . . and fell asleep for a few minutes. A little later she woke up, and I talked with her some more and waited until I was sure she was OK, and then left most of her donation, and said goodnight. She said "are you sure you want to leave?" About a half hour later she called: she apologized, thanked me for my generosity, and wanted to make it up to me for no fee. Life is hard, no matter what we do for a living. There's stress. We try to relieve stress. It's nice to give people the benefit of the doubt. No, I didn't take her up on her offer for a re-do. But I bet she was probably great for her next client.
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