I read the post a few days ago with amusement as someone that some of us pay to do a job told us what her demands are.  At first I decided not to reply, but after thinking about it some more I decided to give another side to this situation.
Sweetie, it's like this: I don't care if you think I am sexy, or my behaviors are sexy- it just does not matter to me. The money I spend for your time should take care of that. If sex was only about being turned on I do not imagine most of the women involved in these activities would be doing them. It is about a service that you and others provide, a service that we as men are willing to (over)pay well for. I have been stood up before, I have gone to see a provider that was not clean (did not stay), have been baited and switched, and even been flat out ripped off. When was the last time you got stiffed for your services like I got stiffed for my money?
  Now, that said, I will concede that I do shower before seeing a provider, and am generally polite. In fact most of your suggestions were things I already do- but it seems that maybe if you are in need of such venting you are borderline, (at least), bitter and should be looking for something else to direct your time to.
Just my 2 cents.. I will duck now as I am sure the flames are forthcoming. gc

"In fact most of your suggestions were things I already do"

So why is it that you had such a problem with it? Just seems to me that you are personalizing my post when by your own admission it was not directed at you. I may be providing a service but it doesn't mean that I or anyother provider has to lower ourselves to a standard that is detrimental to our health and safety. I am about the least bitter person you will ever meet...well you won't but those who have met me can tell you. One does not need to be bitter in order to make an observation.

Why is it that if we decide to speak our mind those that don't agree jump right to calling us bitter and burnt out? you and coyote2 are perfect examples of the us against them mentality that I was commenting on.


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After reading your current review Of barbi luv I can only say that you aren't even worth considering. You are an uncouth Jackass and your lack of respect for providers is very evident throughout your reviews. You are not even worth the energy it took to type this...

what was wrong with his Barbi review?

given time you will no longer feel the bitterness that YOU have expressed or, as you have stated of others, you might consider doing something else with your time (and money). I am very familiar with the lady you have taken exception to and categorized. Trust me, you could not be more wrong. Expressing yourself on the board is fine. As is, expressing herself on the board is fine too. Sure there will be disagreement but, your's is somewhat out of line regarding the lady you are directing all this toward. Keep a stiff upper lip and right-O, KEEP YO ASS CLEAN.

how about the "even a whore deserves a clean ass" comment. seems pretty classless to me.................

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If the shoe fits, she should wear it.

You know that is an interesting suggestion...I bet my size 8 doc marten would fit squarely in your ass...

Interesting how many rant and rave about certain providers (poor Ginger lately) but all feel the need to include the qualifier, "but of course, I would never do such and such.  I'm goddam perfect."

Basically, a provider has the right to demand what ever they want with regards to meeting or screening someone.  It's a free country (relatively).  If you don't like someones policy, find someone else, but for Gods sake don't whine about it.

ouch! ginger girl don't let them reel you in to there cesspool - obviously nothing to be gained by going any further -they just don't get it!

X- seems your comment could be directed at both sides of this- thanks for making one of my points for me. gc