A guy comes over.... spends a few minutes getting aquainted.... a little seduction.... gets an awesome bbbjtc (quoted "world class B.J.")... then full service... many positions... and blows again... leaves with a smile on his face....

and then rates perfomance at a 7?

i think thats a rip...

i mean... 2 pops... a beer.. a shower.. and a nice girl....

and just a 7...

opinions?



-- Modified on 4/28/2003 3:27:55 PM

I think you are putting too much weight on the simple numerical scores, which really can't sum up all the things that providers do for hobbyists.

In this instance, "crimepays" gives high praise to you in the essay portion of the review, worthy of a Penthouse Letters submission. After reading his entire review, there is no question but that you are a real, honest-to-God provider who sincerely enjoys her work. Further, it would be hard to imagine that this review was written up as part of a LE sting. Actually, we have some examples of those in the TER database, and all I can say to San Diego's "finest" is to enroll in a good English composition class (or consult Strunk & White's "Elements of Style").

So, all in all, I think you're possibly being too hard on "crimepays". It's apparent that he absolutely enjoyed the entire encounter, which is at the heart of what every hobbyist wants.

-- Modified on 4/28/2003 1:24:14 PM

Ms Sniffles, I agree with 2Sense. The substance of the encounter is what is prized versus the mere numerical score. It is very hard to place a number, but the descriptor sort of "says it all."

ok.. yah maybe i am placing to much on the 'number'...

a 7 just seems so... average.. like.. coulda been better if... and the thing is... i love to if... i mean really like to if... i thought we had a extra mile typa time... thats how i would have rated it anyways...

nono... im sure of it... a 7 is a rip.. i wanna 8..(stomping feet).. .=)

The numerical score is so subjective that it is useless.  That would be expected with the appearance category, but for performance?

Quite simply, you should have three categories:

1. Will not return under any condition
2. May or may not return
3. Will definitely return

7 is the Maximun value without including several "extra's"

So, in other words, the TOP + SAFE women rate a 7. I think, without reading his review, you are on a 1-8 scale, and you got a 7, which is way above "average", in my humble opinion.

From the Rules:
7.    In order to keep our performance ratings consistent, we set up the following system: An escort provider may only earn up to a 7, unless she also performs the following during a session: Kisses With Tongue, Bare-Back Blow Job, Really Bi, Anal Sex, or More than One Guy. The addition of each offering will raise her score by one point. If your review doesn’t already accurately reflect this rating system, we will adjust it.

In the TER-world, a "7" is a "Hot Time" in the Performance category, and "Hot Time" seems to match the scenario you describe, I would not be too upset.

We've never met, but "Performance" to me is the overall experience and could be many positive and a few negative things.

Maybe you can contact the person who gave you the review via E-mail and ask them what would make an "8" or "Really Hot" in the TER-world?

They may have some suggestions if you're interested.

For example some things that may influence an experience-
answers cell phone and/or checks voicemail (other than for security reasons)
arrives late or is not ready at the agreed time
seems rushed or departs before the allotted time
really large tatoos
not a GFE

It's all really subjective, I wouldn't worry about it!

Go for the "8" the next time, you can do it!

your right..

i appreciate the 7... thats pretty good huh..=)

thanks for the 7... and thanks for the review... and thanks for a nice time...

sorry i was grumpy.... im such a girl sometimes...

baby ~

I don't see how anyone can score you less than an eight, unless he has other issues that aren't addressed.

You have a great attitude!  I can see why you are so highly regarded by the gentlemen that have met you.  Sedagive.

There are guidelines to follow, and unfortunately they are not enforced.  I see too many girls getting an 8 for masssage and cbj or 9 for FS and CBJ.  Sure, maybe she was enjoyable and really well liked, but the scoring is there for a reason and should be followed more carefully.

I'm glad I'm not the only one with those views!  Girl I feel the same way and thought I was the only one but add greek to the menu it for a score of 7.

After many 8, 9, and 10's, a 7 just put me down.  Talk about ungrateful hobbyist?

I've learned we can't make everyone happy or some people are hard graders.

In my book, he got what he came for and left happy, and therefore a minimum of 7 was earned.

Along the way, you earned two extras points, one for the BBBJTC and one for the second pop, unless of course it was part of the negotiations upfront.

Therefore you deserved between and 8 and a 9 depending on his satisfaction level.

I would have scored it as a 9.

But you might want to look at his scoring across the rest of his reviews.  Some guys tend to score very low no matter what the service is like and never reward in accordance with the guidelines.

I believe that the 1-10 scoring for performance is valuable as feedback for providers and hopefully they use it to improve with experience.