I have been a member for over a year and a VIP member for a couple of months. In September I finally took the plunge and visited a provider and wrote a review. Maybe I did something wrong but the review never got posted and doing a search using the providers name shows nothing.  Is this common?

Do a search with your name, her profile in now inactive.

Your profile shows that you have a review of a provider named Joys.  However, her profile is now inactive for some reason.  This is why you can't find your review.