Here is the scenario, ...looking at two gals... One doesn't respond to your initial e-mail for quite a while and then when she does respond, it is a tad distant, clinical and makes you feel like you should be so lucky just to see her. Even when you provide her with all the required information, she wants more since she lost your previous e-mail. Instead of responding to you, you see her posting on the boards more often, ..."Did I say I was coming to town (again)?" After all, she is ..."well worth it, ...just look at my great reviews."

The other, responds quickly, is friendly, witty and even flirts with you with lively banter following your initial contact. She is direct yet warm. She acknowledges your information and might even look at your past reviews to get an idea of who you have seen and what you may have enjoyed in the past. She says nothing about her own reviews, but seems pleased that you have noted hers. She even "thanks" you for contacting her and providing her the necessary information. And, she seems eager to meet you.

Same price for basically the same services and similar ratings. However, there is one importnat fact I must add, the first one is young whereas the second one is what we here call "mature".

So, which one would you go see?



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Seriously? Kind of a no brainer don't you think?  If the flirt checks out, she'll be more fun, you'll probably connect because she's having as much fun as you, and sincere pleasure can't be beat.

I suppose it all depends on whether you're a Charlie "I don't pay them for sex; I pay them to leave" Sheen kinda guy or looking for a GFE/repeat-business-courtesan-seeker kind of guy.

From what I've read on the boards here while lurking for the past few weeks, I'd expect more responses from the latter types than the former.

I'm feelin' that before contact was made you were leaning toward one over the other.
My weighted rack-and-stack side-by-side comparison, as is often the case, outweighs my first impressions because experience has taught me that there are the genuinely enthusiastic, huge hearted, agressive vixens and there are cleverly deceptive salespeople willing to forfeit integrity for greed and I'm not smart enough nor naive enough to think that I can differentiate betix 'em.
When in doubt, choose the one that "smokes but not during session".

I am having same experience.  There is an out of town provider, who I actually tried to see in her home town. I set up tentative appointment, but she never returned phone calls.  Stated subsequently that her voice mail was not working.  Now she comes here, highly touted.  However, tried to contact, 1st by e-mail, and then by phone.  Same result.  Ironically, when I mentioned another provider on her home disc. board, she opined that I ought to try the more available ones. MYOMY I think that I'll stick with our more mature, reliable home town gals.

Take the opportunity that was given to you by the "mature" provider first and then get the younger one next time around.

i prefer more mature providers. they've gotten over the 'teeny-queeny' 'you-should-be-so-lucky' syndrome.  jmho.

It's simple, you shouldn't have to feel rewarded when you get a reply from a provider.  The provider should feel rewarded, after all you are doing the great service of providing them with your business.  If she seems uninterested and you are dissatisfied with unreliable responsivness, I'm afraid it's not going to get better when the donation is set, so why should you give her your business, she should work for it.  The latter may be more mature, but you may find that has its perks; she sounds like the type that finishes with a warm wash cloth, a smile, and gives you the genuine satisfied feeling.  Not the "all that shit and now i'm out $$$" feeling.

That was a rhetorical question, right? It's all about attitude.

Of course, your hypothetical could easily be reversed.  There are young providers who are responsive, friendly, and far less rigid than
their more mature counterparts about their screening process (which can be a big turn off).

My pet peeve are the providers (young or older)who insist you fill out your full name, work phone number, and other sentitive info on their websites before they will even talk with you.

What's up with that?  Like I really want to give out that information to someone with the screen name: comeonawannalaya.  

"Did I say I was coming to town?"

I looks like you were posting on this board all day all week long.  Did you really have appointments, whenever did you find the time to fit them into your posting schedule?  I contacted you but didn't get a response so much for always responding

Hats off to you wonderful gentleman that don't look down on maturity and see it as a plus. And also to notice and see arragonce in others.

Thank You!!

In defense of OMya, (girl you sure are taking the hits on this board, wow!)  But it is true that Cox e-mail has been down.  Since Thursday I have been having problems, and had to call tech support to get to my stuff.  Still having to log in a different way.  But, it is important to respond whenever you can whether you can accomodate the scheduling or not.  I don't expect people to send info unless we know our schedules mesh as it is of no use to me if my schedule is already busy and I can't meet someone.  Omya, I guess you set a mood when you mentioned your scores against other ladies in SD.  Unfortunately it is taking people alot of time to recover from that.  So sorry.  People in San Diego really are very nice, but also very supportive and defensive of the ladies.  It is a hostile town in many ways and that makes people uptight.  You did apologize.  That should be enough.  It is going to be great to visit San Diego in the summertime and get out of this HOT Arizona heat!  Although the sonoran desert can be beautiful, this is not the best time of year!  Whew!



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... I've seen you site, and I think you are HOT.