yep. happened to me too. cali was my original choice a few weeks back. she wasn't available when i called, so i was referred to a different girl. (horror story begins...)

i really should stick to my better instincts, but at that time i was "feelin it". girl stated 20 min. connect time. 2 hours later she shows. not even my type, (i prefer older / healthier women) and showed at my door smoking, asking if she can smoke inside...(bad sign #2). stated that i wasn't her normal type of guy she dates, but would stick around anyway... i politely declined, giving an excuse that i had to work early in the morning, and maybe i'll call again. she called home, got a shopping list that included diapers for someone's baby, and then left.

sooooo, a few nights back i get this call asking me if i want to get together soon. thinking i'm speaking with someone i contacted earlier in the day i agreed. gave the address thinking the she i expected to see doesn't keep info like that on file. 2 hours later the same girl shows, less a smoking stick. she was surprised a bit (?) to see me again, and was okay with seeing me (i guess) because the last time things didn't work out. again i made a polite excuse, she called home, then left to another potential meeting opportunity.

i think i avoided a potential big rip me situation. from now on i stick to the general consensus of the review listings, exchanged emails and multiple phone conversations. i wanted to report this one before, but lost the number from eros, and when i went back to look for it, the cali listing was gone... coincidence?