Ok, so I had my first experience in the hobby last week, breaking an extremely long monogamous period.  "Unfortunately" I had the best sex of my life, and now I want to do it some more!

But I have an extemely vivid immagination and now in my head I hear the following phone call or e-mail "Dear Tim -- I just tested positive for (fill in your worst fear) and I'm contacting everyone I've had sex with in the last couple of weeks, including you.  You'd best rush down to your local testing center and get yourself checked.  Kisses, your ATF"

Aaaargh!  Not what I have in mind!  Not to mention the risk for my SO which would be the cruelest cut of all -- passing along something nasty to an innocent bystander.

I realise that there are people who have hobbied for many years with no problem at all, but I'm afraid I may be just too paranoid, and I may quit before I even get started.

But before I give it up for good, I thought I'd throw a request out there.  

Are there any providers who are as paranoid as I am about their clients? I'd be willing to submit to just about any requirements to hook up with a provider who is dedicated to safety as I seem to be.

If I'm the only one who feels this way, allow to hang my head in shame and skulk away quietly into the night ...

But if you're looking for a really safe client -- that would be me!  And I'm looking for you, too!

You can e-mail me at [email protected]

Thanks!

I don't know who you chose to visit for your 'first time', but hopefully you chose carefully...an escort who's been around here for at least 6 months and has a minimum 6-10 consistently positive reviews. If you were comfortable with your choice of escort and had a great time, I wonder why your paranoia has kicked now all of a suddenly!

Yes, I know what ass..u..me really means, but let's give you the benefit of the doubt and assume you used condoms!  If not, well then.....

I am a well-reviewed, well-known escort, both locally and nationally, and I take exceptionally good care of myself, my general health and particularly my sexual health.  I always use condoms, and I always pay careful attention to the health of my clients.  I visit my doctor for annual general health check ups which include HIV and STD testing, and in between, I also get tested two or three times a year at one of the clinics in this area.  My test results for HIV and STDs have always been negative.  

I work as an escort and that is all I do for a living, so it's extremely important to me to remain healthy and disease free both for myself and for my clients. If I get sick then I can't work, and if I make one of my client's sick, that will be the end of my life as an escort.

Now, let me ask you something... do you believe that the lady you chose for your first time has the same set of values as I do and behaves as I do about this most important issue of sexual health?  That is the type of lady you should be looking for!

I don't know you, how old you are or anything about whether you would be a suitable client for me, but if you carefully consider what I have said here, it's unlikely that you will ever receive the call you are so paranoid about!

Hope this helps a little,
kisses
Suzanne  

manage to stay monogamous when you spend your day with nude women?  Nice work by the way, I really like your photography.

Hi Suzanne!  Thanks for your extensive reply.  It was very helpful.  Yes, I was with a known provider with years of extremely positive reviews.  And yes, we did use condoms.  I'm really not worried about that one encounter.  But as I contemplate expanding my experiences to toher providers my fears kicked in. I feel that I am engaging in (at least somewhat) risky sexual behavior, and I want to be as safe as humanly possible.  That's why I refer to myself as paranoid -- it very well may be an irrational fear.

I belive that the provider I was with does share my same concerns, but we did not talk about health issues specifically.  That's why I decided to post this message.  I realized that health issues are probably the biggest concern I have, and that I should look for like minded providers.  

I like the way you handle your own health concerns, and since I'm older than your minimum requirement (I'm 54), maybe we can meet some time!

Thanks again for your enouraging words.

Hi Iscott.  Yes, I photograph nudes as my hobby.  And that was, in a way, what drove me to the hobby.  I realized that I was selecting models based on some imagined sexual activity that might happen between us.  This, in turn casued me to behave in a less than professional way with the talent.  I was becoming a dirty old man!  So I decided to be honest with myself and admit that if it was sex I was after, I should look for sex, not look for some woman who really just wanted to have her picture taken!  That way I can keep my relationships with my models on a purely professional level. I think we'll all be happier that way.

awesome reply Tim. Thanks for having the honesty to realize what you were doing and the integrity to do something about it.

I've found that it is a very honest relationship.  And it really does allow me to stop humping the legs of my female friends.  Then I can just be a good guy friend to my women friends, and take care of the urges with someone who actually wants to be in on that.  It's really quite liberating.  I think my friends like it too.  And some actually want to hear the stories of the encounters.  Makes 'em pretty hot, an unexpected consequence.  I think they start looking at sex as a fun and wild, and they rethink their "put up the barrier, the dog's at the door" ideas their mothers taught them.  It makes them crazy when you can get by without them.  Just like Will and Grace

Isnt BBBJ risky? Especially BBBJTCIM?