Lately I have been asked by several clients if I would summit them for the white list in order to white list I need their handle and e-mail address, I know some TER gents prefer to keep their handle private and do not want the providere to know who wrote their review. I do understand why as I have heard stories of providers getting upset with a review and then attacking the hobbiest....I think it is a wonderful concept to have a place to put those clients that you really enjoy and pass that info on to the providers via the white list...I was wondering how many providers are using the white list and if so are they still doing reference checks?Or both? I am curious as to to how the hobbiest feel about being white listed .Another question for the hobbiest, after a review is posted do you mind if the provider PMS you with her input or a nice thank you for taking the time and effort to write the review? In order to view you on the white list I do need your handle or e-mail  when you make contact in order for this system to work please let me know your thoughts...Hope everyone has a beautiful day.Victoria

I've noctied a lot of girls still want an actual provider name to check with her.
Some of the same reasons people don't trust
Date-Check, but I find it works great.
I refer them to DC, so only DC has their personal info. No back lash that way.
I personally don't like sharing a great guy anyway. So if he wants a reference he can always ask.

I use my White List referrals for verification along with my Date-Check verifications.  If a provider uses some other form of verification, I don't offer up my id until the session is over.  

That way I know what the review is going to be and if she didn't give a good session and that is the review I am going to write, she doesn't know who I am.  On the other hand, if it was a good session, I always give my id and ask kindly that if they like the review I write, if they will kindly give me a White List referral.

Unfortunately, not that many ladies seem to know what the White List is or how to use it.  A lot of ladies mistakenly think you have to be a VIP to use it.  Still other ladies are signed up as members of TER, but not as providers, and they can't use the White List for that reason.

I have tried to educate ladies about how to use the White List and how valuable it can be, but not many have ended up figuring it out, which is too bad.

I have also tried to get a number of ladies on Date-Check, without very much success.  I sometimes get the feeling that a lot of ladies do this kind of half-assed and are really missing out on a lot of opportunities because of it.

I just try to be the best person I can and help as many people to have as much success as I can.  If they take my advice and help, great.  If not, it is their loss not mine.

As far as follow up, I love it!  A have returned home on a few occassions and had an e-card or email waiting for me thanking me for a great session.  It really gives me a good feeling inside and makes me feel like I did my job in helping the lady have as nice a time as I did.

Victoria, you are a beautiful and classy lady.  If you ever make it to DC, PM me and let me know.  I would be honored to have you as a referral on my White List, and just know that I am more than willing to earn that referral...LOL.

and while I think, in concept, it's a good idea, I have to admit I have many of the same concerns about it that you and Jai have pointed out. If a provider I want to see wants a reference, I always ask (I have a good idea ahead of time who will say yes and who won't). I have absoluletely no issues with a provider pm'ing after I write a review. I always send an email after I return home to thank them for a wonderful time, and let them know that a review is coming, unless they've asked me not to write one.

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I have been asked to post on the white list, but there is little room for comment. How do you know what I did with a client and will that be a good reference?

Also, it doesn't provide a "level of service" or a description of what the two parties shared...like a review.

A white list post from a FBSM is useless to a FS girl.

Since the customer is paying, I would think the purpose is to let providers know that he is not a jerk instead of rating what and how well he performs.  Don't need much space to say he was a jerk or not.

the white list does not list anything more than the the date you saw him and who he has seen or been whitelisted by ....Victoria

Just like reviews the white list would be a faith on whom ever is writing on this person & hope their being honest not doing a favor right? "take it as our word take it or leave it.  We don't know who the author is or maybe we do writing a review & what really happened in that encounter this is only his interpretation am i right?  Sometimes that provider reviewed ends up not being what another hobbyist wanted & expected from his take from the review.  But bottom line we get the "skinny" on someone whether we are FBSM or FS... I don't see how there should be a separation.  FS guys that have seen & reviewed FBSM providers have also reviewed FS girls if you look at their history of reviews.... guys try to score FS on me as an FBSM provider so I don't think that white list is for one providers or the others benefit exclusively. Why are we all on this same sight chatting etc. with eachother ...dah...These men see both provider types so white list or no list it's all of us together here & would be beneficial.  

I don't think there is a very annonymous way in which this could be done quite frankly.....

What's interesting is that there are some hobbyists w/ many reviews and not one lady has added them to their white list and there are some (like me) w/ few reviews but high percentage of WL- What that means, who the hell knows- I just think it helps speed up the ref. check if the gal who WL you is well reviewed and has a good reputation w/ the other ladies- Also, nice ego boost for the guy-