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sexystephie See my TER Reviews 2792 reads
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Well if this isnt Brewster I sure would like to know who had such a horrible time with me. If you could pull your head out of your ass for a minute, and look at my reviews, the only thing that is consistent with what you are saying is my being late. I make no qualms about that. I am working on it. Other than that it was obviously a matter of taste, and it just didnt click with us.  And if this is Brewster, not wanting to wear a fricken condom is something that I wouldnt like.  So for your information, you are an asshole and you just are trying to be mean. If you really think, that all the other people who have met me are wrong and you and maybe one or two others are right, then you seriously need some mental health care. You have no class, and me, being white trash like you said, will have no probelm airing ugly dirty things about you . You wish, I wont stoop to your level.  Have a wonderful life, but please stay out of mine.

Just one more day.... And no I wasnt in a chat room, I just had my yahoo messenger window up... Doesnt anyone have anything better to do ???  I am sorry. No wonder my biz is dead, who'd want to see me... sheez I would run the other way too----schleprock is demolishing everything in her path... Have a good one, everyone.  I dont need to get any replies.. it is just good therapy to at least share my encounters with these other people that try to say they are men, and put a bad taste in my mouth for doing that...I will not get jaded, I will not get jaded, I will not get jaded...

padresjason: so what is it you do for a living
sandiego_stephie: How come it is you guys never look at the profile
sandiego_stephie: go do that
sandiego_stephie: or better
sandiego_stephie: go to www.sexystephie.com
padresjason: its says your a hooker
sandiego_stephie: well no it says escort
padresjason: yeah
sandiego_stephie: hookers have no teeth and a pimp
padresjason: same thing
sandiego_stephie: i have 7 teeth and no pimp
padresjason: i dont go on porn sites sorry
sandiego_stephie: and i will say good nite to you
sandiego_stephie: it isnt a porn site
sandiego_stephie: it is my website
padresjason: ok
padresjason: is that a pic of you
sandiego_stephie: and why you bugging me--if it said hooker it must mean i am so if that isntyour cup of tea why cause  me misery
sandiego_stephie: yes it is me
sandiego_stephie: what is wrong with it?
padresjason: im just chattin
padresjason: nothin wrong with that
sandiego_stephie: yeah but i dont have time to chat with people like you
sandiego_stephie: yeah there is
sandiego_stephie: you got nothing nice to say
padresjason: are you an escort
sandiego_stephie: you just want to belittle someone else
padresjason: i just asked a questionn
sandiego_stephie: like that will get you a free blowjob
padresjason: are you an escort for real?
sandiego_stephie: i am in the business of pleasure
sandiego_stephie: and as the owner, operator and proprietor
sandiego_stephie: i can refuse service to anyone
sandiego_stephie: and that includes you
sandiego_stephie: so good night
sandiego_stephie: jason
padresjason: your mother must be proud
sandiego_stephie: i mean pete
sandiego_stephie: have a good one
padresjason: you suck cock for cash
sandiego_stephie: as a matter of fact she is
padresjason: what an accomplishment in life
sandiego_stephie: not your s
sandiego_stephie: see what a piece of shit you are
sandiego_stephie: you know what
padresjason: lol
padresjason: im a piece
padresjason: but you suck strange for cash
padresjason: lol
padresjason: your a loser
sandiego_stephie: fuck off and have a good life asshole . I am sure you are some womans miserable piece of shit husband trying to come up on free pussy
padresjason: get a real job and get off your back
padresjason: ho
padresjason: free?
padresjason: your nasty body
padresjason: i wouldnt pull you out of a dumpster to mop shit off my car

that says "This woman deserves a party"?

I think you deserve something along those lines, Steph.

However, I think you should consider blocking your YM availability to only known senders.  Too many people out there who would work hard to bring any of us down, and you have met a disproportionate amount of them.

Listen to your clients...you rock.  Fuck those other boneheads.

know we are tring to be politicallt correct? when he called you a hooker  why argue? thats what you are. dont fool yourself you are a hooker and i'm a john or whatever they call me and its all buisiness. welcome to reality

Your statement reminds me of the difference between people who always view the glass as half empty versus those that view it half full.

If you want to express everything as the lowest common denominator the ladies are all hookers, etc and the guys are all johns, tricks, etc.  However if that attitude really permeates your thinking then I don't understand what enjoyment you really get from seeing any of the ladies. At that point it would seem much easier and cheaper to get some porn and have a a date with rosy palm and her 5 sisters.  It is much better to view this as an activity that both you and the lady enjoy in addition to her getting $.  Speaking from experience once you get the attitude that you are just a walking ATM it is very difficult to get rid of that attitude and enjoy yourself.  At that point in time you probably need to take a break or permanently retire from the hobby.

As to pudding's comments there is more than just a lady's looks that makes her a success or failure in this business.  Different guys have different tastes in the type of lady they like to see (short, thin, heavy, tall).  In addition the lady's attitude tends to be more important than her appearance.  Lately I have met some of the most interesting ladies by paying little attention to their physical appearance and much more attention to their discussion board posts, chat room discussions and personal meetings.    



pudding2939 reads

MrSelfDestruct:

She does not rock. Poor service, always late. and not the best looking peach in town. I know she is having a rough spot, but you should not mislead other people just to make her feel good.

You know what pudding, I was going to start a reply to defend myself but why bother. I am late, and that is a flaw and I am trying to work on it. Oh here I go defending myself anyways. Pudding, or is it Brewster? There are only a few miserable,pieces of body extract like yourself who have nothing nice to say to anyone. To say anything to someone who was trying to be nice to me, well that is low class. Why put him in the line of fire? At least have some balls like Pussy whatever and just dog on me. One other thing you will find out about me, I am as loyal as they come. Don't cause anyone any discomfort on account of me. And what happen to "to each their own". You have every right to state that I am a piece of crap but anyone else has the same right to say I am awesome. You know it is people like you that have me about to yank anything with my name off of this place and just go away. Cuz I left high school and all its clique crappiness along time ago..You my dear, miserable pudding must still be stuck in that time.  I bet you cruise the web looking to be mean to someone... well step up to the plate cuz I will match your crappy disposition and topple it with the crap I can fling. And yes I am a HOOKER and neither of you could pay me any amount to spit on you if you were on fire.  So EMF.

You have one correct point...Stephanie does have a problem with being on time.

However......

She provides EXCELLENT SERVICE to thoes who don't try and treat her like a second class person or those who do not treat her like crap. Which is true for most of the ladies who have class.

As far as her looks.....that's merely a personal preference and YOUR opinion. I've seen legitimate porn starlets who I did not find very attractive, but that was just MY preference.

Steph is attractive, although perhaps YOU are the one who should be wearing the paper bag on YOUR head?!?!

I was talking to Steph, not making a sales pitch for her to other hobbyists.  I have never seen her myself, but I know people who have, and I have seen people state on here that they like her, and those were the people I was referring to ("You rock...just listen to your clients").  As such, it was not being misleading in the slightest, it was being supportive to someone who was a victim of unnecessary cruelty.  It is up to others what they think of her potential for a date based on her reviews, her posts, and their contact with her.

Second, I agree with JBIRDCA, and your post was unnecessary.  Didn't your mother ever tell you that if you don't have something nice to say, don't say anything?

You should take a line from John Fowles "The Magus" to heart..."Cause no unnecessary pain".

-- Modified on 8/28/2004 11:57:35 PM

pudding3828 reads

Mr SelfDestruct, as for your "be nice comments," (Didn't your mother ever tell you that if you don't have something nice to say, don't say anything? You should take a line from John Fowles "The Magus" to heart..."Cause no unnecessary pain".) THIS IS A REVEW BOARD, and some are going to make comments that seem not so nice. The comments are valid. She is always late, her service is poor, she places an emphasis on dance yet has no sexy movement, her looks are below average, and her skills are undeveloped. You wopuld not know this because you have never met her, yet you try to offer her some type of comfort about her service. Well Bravo, good use of an uniformed opinion.

AS for Mr. JBIRDCA's comment that I must have wanted something she would not offer. That is wrong. The only thing I wanted was for her to leave, which she did well once I walked her out to her car.

to get that chip off of your shoulder, brother.

There is a time for detail, and the details you gave were extraneous to the original thread itself.  That I took the high road with this thread and credited Stephanie for having some clients who think she "rocks" (some of which have posted on this thread) as something to cheer her up, when the main thread was completely unreleated to her sessions (of which you don't seem to have a review of to warn your TER brothers...which is your prerogative, but is kind of weak to just instead slam her on this board), makes me feel just fine about where I came from on this thread.  There are others who have detailed her performance in depth and given her high marks for it, so it may be a case of YMMV, but my opinion was not uninformed...and yours is not God's decree regarding her, so spare me the smugness.  I was not comforting her regarding her service...it was regarding some jerk on Yahoo who didn't know anything about her service.

BTW, this is a not a "review board", it is a "discussion board".  Reviews are for the review pages, so why don't you share your wisdom and go write your review of her so we can all take it into consideration?

I am sure Stephanie would love to see this thread finished, as the e-mail exchanges I have had with her indicate that she is kind hearted, in spite of the flakiness that she is quite honest about saying she has, so I have had enough.  I don't know you from Adam, and it is time for us to agree to disagree and both shut up.  You contrasted me first, so I hope you will be civil enough to let me close this now.  If not, though, you will be talking to the wind, because I am done with you.

OOOOPPPSSS.  I got pissed and had already sent a response to that asswipe before I had read your reply.... so I too, am done with this..and I think he did write a review... he just isnt using his real handle right now.  I am sure it is Brewster.Well, apologies ahead of time if I am wrong but I would say I am 99% sure it is him.  Thanks to all who have been sweet, and I am sorry to the ones who feel it is in anyones best interest to just be plain nasty.  Good day all.

Well if this isnt Brewster I sure would like to know who had such a horrible time with me. If you could pull your head out of your ass for a minute, and look at my reviews, the only thing that is consistent with what you are saying is my being late. I make no qualms about that. I am working on it. Other than that it was obviously a matter of taste, and it just didnt click with us.  And if this is Brewster, not wanting to wear a fricken condom is something that I wouldnt like.  So for your information, you are an asshole and you just are trying to be mean. If you really think, that all the other people who have met me are wrong and you and maybe one or two others are right, then you seriously need some mental health care. You have no class, and me, being white trash like you said, will have no probelm airing ugly dirty things about you . You wish, I wont stoop to your level.  Have a wonderful life, but please stay out of mine.

pudding4276 reads

I am not Brewster. I have have written nothing but the truth about you. As for me needing mental health care just beacuse I disagree with the "majority view," in your reviews, I doubt that it is necessary. Perhaps I have higher standards than those who have reviewed you, or I have had better experiances than they have with other local ladies.

Well then, Like Mr Self Destruct said, Why don't you write a review about the time you had with me so you can inform all these people about how crappy you think I am. I also, would love to know who the hell you are?  Are you the guy with the two inch dick that couldnt keep it up to save his life?  Oh shoot, he was nice.  Hmmmm who are you?  You seem to know better than all others how I am. You gave Mr.SD crap for just being supportive. You gave the impression that you had first hand knowledge of me....so who are you??? Why don't you step up to the plate now?  Higher standards?  Ha you are probably one of those guys that see a girl who is a rip off, pay her tons of money, and she lets you jack off while looking at her and you think you had a fine time.  Go to it, brother.... YOu obviously have never had a real woman and probably are a closet homosexual and get your jollies by belittle women because you have no clue how to be a man with one.  Not to put you in a category of homosexuals, since all the ones I have met have been very nice and more of a man in knowing how to treat a woman than you will ever dream of being.  Are we done now?

pudding2592 reads

Stephie, you are in a service industry, and people are going to comment on your service. Your apperance and your level of talent are rigthly commented upon on this board. I never attacked you as a person,and I did not belittle a woman. I wrote about your talents in the area upon which The Eroctic Review is focused. If it is OK for someone who has never met you to say "you rock" (his commeents being based upon what he has read from others), there is nothing wrong with me writing that you are below average. My conscience is clear. As for "Are we done now?" --- I have no idea why you feel like you can spit your nasty noise out on this board, and then try and call the game over -- that is just rude.

That guy was totally out of line.

There's nothing wrong with being an escort.  At least you work to bring a little pleasure to the world :)

I hope this is not typical of what providers (or non-providers, for that matter) have to put up with.

Just keeping you ladies posted on some bad meat out there.  Hope this saves you from having to deal with them.  I am becoming quite good at shutting them down. And write onto my ignore list. One question, what is it about me that opens this door?  I mean I am minding my own business... If anyone has any ideas please respond.  And a special thanks to the men who have been so supportive and absolutely awesome... Much appreciation.. Thanks again.  beefwellingtn: Hi if you would like someone fun and open minded to talk to, feel free to IM me.  I am in San Diego too.
sandiego_stephie: are you looking for an escort?
beefwellingtn: why are you asking
sandiego_stephie: because that is what I am on the net for---www.sexystephie.com
beefwellingtn: well I would have to see apic
beefwellingtn: stephanie?
beefwellingtn: hello?
beefwellingtn: I have a couple questions regarding your website and you being an escort
beefwellingtn: well here is what I was going to say.  If you are going to be an escort, you might want to get in better shape and maybe consider a breast lift or a boob job or something.  I cant imagine paying someone to be with me who isnt even in as good a shape as I am in.  Or in MY case looks better in a thong than you do.
sandiego_stephie: well who approached whom?
sandiego_stephie: and being an escort has a whole lot more to do with attitude than with looks
beefwellingtn: sorry I guess I didnt look at your pictures... I am not trying to be mean but I am just being honest.  in your line of work you have to be smokin hot
sandiego_stephie: go see one of those hot bodied young ones, and then you will know
sandiego_stephie: no you dont
sandiego_stephie: you watch too much tv
beefwellingtn: I date hot bodied young ones all the time
beefwellingtn: and I dont pay for them either
sandiego_stephie: so if you didnt see my pictures why you talking shit
sandiego_stephie: okay
sandiego_stephie: good for you
sandiego_stephie: you know what
sandiego_stephie: This is over. I am not about to start dealing with you again Slambig
beefwellingtn: LOL
beefwellingtn: sour graps?
sandiego_stephie: Later
beefwellingtn: grapes?
beefwellingtn: MUCH later
beefwellingtn: after you get in shape

Well read your post and find it quite interesting. Most hobbyist are respectful and are quite honest in their intentions. However, there are people out there which to be honest are rude and rather childish. This is a reflection of society and anywhere you may go. Not that I know or claim to be an expert in anything................ But I have met and enjoyed your company. I had a great time, find very charming and yes very SEXY.

However, with everything in LIFE............ YMMV

TB

Both of these passages strike me as having something missing, like a beginning. How did these conversations originate? And who the heck trolls for business in this manner? This must be some new form of bar-girl scenario I hadn't heard of before. Accept in a bar setting you see the girl, strike up a friendly conversation and then proceed to the important questions. Without any context these passages look like some girl is in a civilian chat room and says "hey, ya wanna pay me for my time so we can fuck?" and the guy isn't sure how to respond because he didn't realize their were working girls in the room. Its one thing to have a short fuse if you're in a brothel and a guy doesn't follow protocol. It's an entirely different thing to have a guy make a misstep if he's in a library and then go ballistic on him.

Scampr, as a long timer here at TER, I'll not blast you for your post. I will, however, point out a few things.

There are a very few adventurous members who use Yahoo's member search to find those hidden gem providers. If you've been on TER for any long period of time, you migth recall that we've had members post about discoveries made through Yahoo and some of the other/former personal type boards.

I point this out because if you do some keyword searching, you'll find Steph's profile listing and it clearly is of interest if you are male and hetero. That being said, it's not surprisng that guys DO troll Yahoo looking for ladies. Many just want cyber, some want to belittle others, and a few are looking for those low profile, under the radar ladies. I know Steph has a tendency to leave her Yahoo ID logged in, so I'm not surprised an occasional asswipe initiates a chat session with her, just to harass her or try and score something for free.

By your own admission, you don't know the circumstances of the conversation-yet I find your inferences/implications bordering on offensive.

I guess I was a little amazed. I must have missed the posts you're referring to or I thought they were LEsuspicious!  I didn't know there was anything like what you're referring to.  It seemed she was in a chat room or something similar and SHE was looking for new friends which seems like a very dangerous proposition (especially in your neck of the woods). Is this common?   The other point which caused me to post was how quickly her responses escalated. To someone not in the hobby, as we so hiply euphemize it, "hooker" might be the first term that comes to mind in the surprise of the moment.  Until a few years ago I didn't realize that it was rude to interchange the words call girl, hooker, etc...

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