ok here's my story... I got so turned on watching people having sex (no, not porn). I started when I was in college and my roomate then went through girls like water. He brought home different girls every other day or so. So I started watching them have sex through the window of my room (can't help it cuz' his room is right accross mine) and I got so turned on even more so than having real sex myself. Is it a normal reaction? Dont get me wrong, I love to have sex but watching others have sex turns me on even more! Is there anybody else out there like me?

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No. You are not sick. I to like to watch others having sex. I go to some of the party house around San Diego and Riverside conties with two of my girlfriends. There you can watch other couples go at it or join in. It's lots of fun.

I don't know about liking it MORE than having sex yourself! Nah..

Yes there are people out there like you, or they wouldn't have a term for it.  It's called "voyerism".   Check out swinger sites, and you'll find that a lot of men are looking for guys to sleep with their wives while they watch -- sometimes from the room, sometimes from the closet.  BUT, I wouldn't necessarily call it normal.

Next time you get some cash together, I will go with you to your next date with a provider. I will have sex with your provider, using your money of course, and you get to watch at no extra charge!!

Since it's much more of a turn on that having sex himself, it makes perfect sense.

while watching others have sex makes me blush, i have a thing for watching men masturbate to completion.  

HUGE turn on and top fantasy topic.  and yes, depending on the partner, watching it has turned me on more than the act of sex.

normal reaction?  i guess we've been conditioned to really get off on these things.  as long as it's not harmful to anyone or interfering with intimacy issues, i say why worry about it?

lol... sure sparker... why not hire you eh

You hire me and I will sub-out the provider and we are all happy. Of course, I may charge you more than the providereven though she is far prettier!!