what a privilege we have being able to see providers at our very whim, I offer the link below.  Until general society accepts our “hobby”, it is still a privilege and unfortunately nothing more.  I found this on the "FAQ's for Newbies" but I think this great post pertains to all. Yes, this has probably been covered before and it's important enough to be brought up again from time to time.  I'm generally very optimistic and lighthearted but I'm still fuming from reading an earlier post by a San Diego favorite that got treated like leftover meat, to which I had to reply but have a lot more to say.  (Thanks MrSelfDestruct for advising me about the post).  If everything described is true as she states, then this guy should be kicked in the perineal area until he has gross hematuria and a g.i. bleed.  Ever wonder where that saying "All men are dogs" came from?  Do you think woman just make this sh*t up because they're bored?  All it takes is one guy to be a jerk and it spoils it for numerous others later on.  I’m pissed and so should you.  This type of behavior has a ripple effect on ALL of us.  You don't have to be a saint to understand the value of basic human respect and compassion.  Even if you honestly don't care about anyone else other than your own friends/family (hey it’s your call..and your life), one should still treat others with basic respect.  Why??  Easy...what goes around, usually comes around.  Call it whatever you like, Karma, an “act of God”, sociological/psychological observations, Action/Reaction or just plain “common sense”... it's still true.

These ladies often go through a tremendous amount of effort in becoming a legitimate provider.  Most are running their own small business, not an easy task.  They are their own financier, owner, secretary and of course the one to provide goods and services (and the ones to receive the flack from disgruntled customers).  This doesn't include setting up/paying for websites, obtaining/paying for acceptable photos, screening calls/emails, booking clients, dealing with cancellations, not knowing who (or what) is going to show up (does the name Gary Leon Ridgway ring a bell?).  Any of you ever worry about meeting a provider that might use a steak knife to place a permanent tracheal smile on you from ear to ear?  Probably not.  This still doesn't cover worrying about diseases, donut eaters, getting ripped off or having to clean and shower multiple times a day or worrying about your menses.  When was the last time you had to douche?  And as far as possible STD's go, chances are statistically much higher for a woman to contract one than a man with normal I.C.  If you feel fortunate as a heterosexual male that's good, because you are.

Please, I ask that we all reconsider what precious resources we have here.  NEVER take these ladies for granted.  I'm often saddened to see or hear providers that retire and wonder if they just got tired of having to deal with all the above.  If you don't care about the providers feelings and think they are just "disposable" members of society (hope you never see me as a patient, it would be a shame if I forgot my aseptic technique.) you should still treat them kindly.  It's a win/win situation and those with any life experience know these situations do not come around often enough and with that, go out and enjoy the wonderful feminine treats these ladies offer us without judgement or games found in typical relationships.  Can you find a better example of mutualism in society?  Is there anything more symbiotic?  Is there anything more exquisite than a lovely pair of legs wrapped around your neck pulling you closer to her flower and her nectar?
Best.

B55

The link below is a literary masterpiece of human understanding.

http://theeroticreview.com/MsgBoard/viewmsg.asp?MessageID=5319&boardID=33&page=1  

Wow, What a great insight. Thanks for yours as well as the other post. Well written and a must read for those of us who consider ourselves gentlemen.
Well Done!

It's the appreciation of men like you that is valued. Thank you for understanding. Men such as yourself and MR.SelfDestruct along with several others give men a good name and keep us here!
~CarleeofArizona

Are ladies from Phoenix just naturally sweet, Carlee?  Between you and Ciara, I have a newfound appreciation for AZ.  

Buddy's post was strong, but full of so many good points.  I have been so fortunate to meet or talk with the ladies I have on here.  Given everything you all deal with to be here (and yes, guys, the money is good...for some), we men truly are the fortunate ones.

and I feel very fortunate for the guys I have met. Most of them have been really great.

Some, however, have caused me to have to change some of my policies and procedures (not a bad thing) but, that will essentially, also, make it better for the good ones! So, good still wins!

I have one regular in particular who is in San Diego that says the same thing MrSelfDestruct. Most of us in Az are sweet and appreciate a good man when we meet him. *wink wink* It's the old saying treat others the way you want to be treated and then the only thing left to do is cum. (hehe couldn't resist)
~Carlee

I was venting and feel better now.  I found writing the post to be very cathartic.  I should be my happy-go-lucky self again soon.  Best everyone.  

B55

... is to the Newbie board. The author of that post also posted it on the National board where perhaps it received a wider reading.

The post received some well deserved praise and some of the responses in the thread that developed were quite interesting and noteworthy.

A link to the same post on the National board follows:

http://theeroticreview.com/msgBoard/viewmsg.asp?MessageID=85096&boardID=12&page=

I echo B55's sentiments.

It's quite worthwhile to revisit something like this now and then.