This board is on a dire road to abomination. During the past year every time I return to SD and tap into this board discussions range from krispy cream doughnuts to flaming any individual whose post might have a different opinion. Providers have become less involved with this board over the past year in comparison to previous years and I can only speculate it’s due to all the negativity coming from this board. Some of you need to check out other boards and get a feel for all the benefits that could come from a well informed board made of members that generally have a respect for each other. Life is too short to be in a continuous whirlwind of negativity. A lot of people out there will surprise you if you try being nice once in a while. Hell! Give it a test try being nice to someone today or helping someone in need. It just might surprise you! Just my $.02 of course. . .

.....you are aware of the LE activity in SD aren't you? From the occasional read of the national board, it sounds as if SD is running a close second to Orange County for LE activity. It's hard to always be nice and respectful when a post, or poster, could potentially lead to the virtual destruction of someones life. Take the previous thread for instance (which I think prompted you to write this) referencing the infamous Silky Kyla. There are too many earlier posts about her to even count, yet someone asks if she's legit. If some of the more negative posts hadn't been written then maybe the original poster would follow the link by BoscoTops and see a glowing review on TER, which would most likely lead to an unwanted tour of downtown by SD's finest.

I would agree that repetitive and constant references to doughnuts, or the unwarranted flaming of a provider who is announcing a visit is neither entertaining nor productive. But I'll take a more informative, if sarcastic, board over a friendlier "dumbed down" board any day. After all, as much as one may read this for the entertainment value, the real value is in the exchange of information.

Maybe in another geographic location your message would be more readily accepted, but the true "dire road to abomination" would be if someone doesn't heed the advice provided by what you refer to as negative posts.

I posted a message to 1travelman last night.  It hasn't come up yet, but I happen to know he is a very hornorable hombre.  Some people are still learning.  Like me for instance.....I nearly got into trouble with the stinking badges also.  The only thing that got me out of it was I kept saying NO NO NO when she would talk about DOLLARS, because all I had was Pesos!

I now have a Guestbook on my web page.  They won't take Pesos for TER membership either.  Plus, I want to remain very sneaky, but if you wanted to send me a message, you are welcomed to say something on my guestbook, although it is public.  Or I can be e-mailed at [email protected]  Really Amigos, it is best that we cooperate with one another.  That is the best way to resist the STINKING BADGES!

http://www.geocities.com/nostinkingbadges2000/BadgesBandito.html?1066816179090

but the continuous reference to LE is old. While it may warrant consideration on occasion it seems to have manifested itself into a religion here worshiped by many. Of course being apprehensive is wise, but when it becomes mean spirited it loses it's appeal of being informative. Gordo it wasn't one post that made me jump up on this soap box, it was a year accumulation of bullshit, which made me snap. Usually I just skip over the negative comments on this board and only post when I can become helpful. Of course this is just a years worth of frustration barking, but information does not need to be sarcastic, as being friendly does not warrant a "dumb down" board. Also friendliness should not be denoted geographically it would do us all well to incorporate it universally. Life is way to short to embrace with anything less than friendliness. Once again just my $.02…………..

At least theres some intelligent conversation. Even if it like yelling fire after 911 has been called. People wanting to warn or protect others are just letting LE win. They  discourage both sides with on going horror stories. Happens everynight in Vegas. People just have enough sense to know it comes with the territory. But I don't think the Vegas Boards go on and on about it.
I guess I'm confused. I thought this was the Erotic 'Review', not a monitor posts to keep people out of trouble board. It's like walking across a busy. You know you may get hit by a car. So you look bothways...someone doesn't do it for you.

I also have to say to some of you, who I truly have mucho respecto for, but those of you who live and breath on this board can become very critical.  There are some of us Hombres, who do alot of other things.  Like me for instance.  I might need your help on someone sometime.  I might not know how far back to look, etc., etc.  It is not hospitable to fire your guns at someone just for asking a simple question.  1trvlman only asked a simple question.  Lighten up hombres.........take a break and check out my movie........you will find it on my website.

http://www.darryl.com/badges/mov.php?mov=sierramadre.mov

Many of the other discussion boards are merely advertisement after advertisement with no discussion at all.

Yes, there are some that are great at a variety of topics.

I happen to think that this board is absolutely TERRIFIC given the ugly atmosphere of LE in this county.

LE in this county happens to be one of the most dedicated to interrupting internet escorting and has used this forum prolificly in its attempts to do so.

You're welcome, times25, to start as many positive threads as you like as often as you like, in order to keep the balance.

I'm just happy right now to be out of serial dating and not feeling any of the pressures that I used to, even though I NEVER did anything even remotely illegal~~the threat of entrapment always obviously loomed.

In my book it's always best to be informed and to plan for the worst, hoping for the best!!

Elise [email protected]

WHAPPING a non-vip for asking for general information about who is the best bbbj north of I-8 may seem mean spirited to you, x25, but to a bunch of us, it's just plain hilarious.

I guess our differences is what makes the world go round.

In any case, VIP membership is what keeps TER up and running and if you want to add your two cents and make a sweet and kind addition to a person that fishes for information without bothering to make an investment, that's your right, just as it's my right to go the way of the naughtymax and whip out my virtual flyswatter.

I believe any one that goes to any discussion board on the net, much less an adult discussion board had better put on their thickest skin.

LE isn't going to go away anytime soon, so as far as you comment about this going on all year, there are ladies that have paid thousands of dollars and had to quit "playing" and I'm certain there are men that have also run upon the vice duddettes that have had their lives turned upside down this past year,...... The LE tone is a direct result of those types of incidents.  We're here to warn others so they won't have to endure this type of scenario.

Elise [email protected]

So don't read it if you don't want the information.

You HEAR a person screaming fire.  No need to read the posts about LE if they don't interest you.

Unfortunately we had a little pecker flinging donuts as the title of every thread, so doing a search for the common words one might look for in a discussion search to find information regarding LE is not an easy task any longer.

Knowledge is power.

Elise [email protected]

elise dear i'm sorry you've missed the point, but Pm me and i'll be happy to discuss vip membership with you!