I have at least four SD "top rated" TER providers that didn't bother to show, or cancelled at the last minute, or bait and switched or were at least an hour late and then didn't show.  All provided the most incredulously stupid excuses for doing this.  There are many on that EROS and City Back Page website that don't even respond by phone call, text or e-mail.

In my years of hobbying in San Diego, I've met quite a few local Top 10 gals. Only one (no longer active so why bash her now) was of a flake when it came to cancelling for odd reasons.

I had a provider flake on me today - not necessarily top 10 - but highly reviewed here.  Some of the reviews note that she is "late" which I can somewhat deal with because stuff happens... but I drove 30+ miles to her incall, arrived on time and then the excuses began... 4pm appt turns to 4:30 and she'll text me when she's ready, then 5pm... radio silence.  Text her that I'm leaving and immediately get text that she has been waiting for me... wait what??  you told me you would text when you are ready... then I get the "I'm sorry"... so frustrating!! -KM-

Sorry for your troubles but please post the names it might save the rest of us from wasting time.  
Thanks....

There are many factors in why a lady no shows. Excuses I have heard include my sister came to visit unexpectedly, I have a flat tire, (always luved that one), can't find my car keys, phone died or lost phone and fell asleep!! The most common often untold reason by the ladies for no shows is they got a better offer. If John A calls and wants an hour at 3 pm then 10 minutes later John B calls and wants two hours for the same time slot, guess who wins?! It's certainly very poor manners not to text John A with some excuse or even offer to make it up, but many ladies are not wired that way. They don't like conflict and would rather just no show.  Keep in mind top performer s get many many calls a day and have the luxury to pick and choose. Very few are that well organized to juggle multiple guys in a day. Curious to know who these ladies are and how the date was confirmed for each.

Is: i fell asleep

happened to me way too many times.  There should be an "accountability" rating on a review for timeliness.  I dislike providers who are horrible communicators - I have notice an upward trend in poor communications/bad excuses.  I simply do not understand it.  Can you please PM these providers so I can spare myself some angst.  Thank you.

As I have grown older I value your time as much as I do my own & maybe because this is more of a hobby of mine now.  I do not get to play often, so when I do I really enjoy the time I share with my friends.  I think when this is a providers everyday job it becomes a chore, and the thrill is gone.  I am sure it is easy to get burnt out.  Sharing is caring & that is why this is such a wonderful community.  I am sure the gents here would love to hear you had no show on you.  Sorry that happened to you. Integrity & professionalism is hard to find in any business.

Your looks....lol, actually just bad luck.  I could give you 5 names right now who would see you sight un seen...but I am bored right now

I have to agree. I don't stand guys up, always on time.

Your Highness:

Dee and Daa-bait and switchers

"KM" = Kylie Monroe...

Finally somebody having the balls to post the truth.

I contemplated responding to this with my alias, but Nuts' good example, made me man up.

I have been seeing Heather Harlow 2-3 times a month for the last  3 years, if she canceled on you it was for a legitimate reason!!! she is not a flake and if she says her daughter had a problem then her daughter had a problem! She is the most professional providers around she doesn't cancel just for nor good reason!!!

If Heather cancelled on you because her daughter had a dental emergency, her daughter had dental emergency! I have been seeing Heather 2-3 times a month for the last 3 years if she canceled it was for a good reason.

I know Heather very well for a number of years now. She does have a daughter, she is a mom first, and a great mom too! As she says, she is honest and truthful, she doesn't play games, and as rickr33, and others, have said Heather is one of the most professional woman I know. She works hard on her business,  on her body to look absolutely stunning for us guys. It is frustrating to be cancelled on, and us guys do it to our providers at times too.  If Heather cancels then it is absolutely for a very legit reason and not to be taken personally.  Trust me to say, if you chose Heather initially you made a great choice. If there is a cancelation then simply reschedule and you WILL be very pleased that you did. I plan on seeing Heather as long as she is in this business.

Ugh, I'm having the same problem from the opposite side!!
Yes, we unfortunately have to stay guarded: I would be leery saying things like I'm a mom first for instance. But things like lame excuses, NCNS, doing this on either side for years and still being extremely rude, really makes me question how one could be seen as a "top" hobbyist OR provider.

She did that to me twice. Very flakey

Dee dee daa daa bait and switch? How so?

This has gotten complicated. I can't remember what happened next. What happened after the cancellation?  Did she offer to make amends?

only on your birthday?  That's a novel idea.  So the rest of the year, you're a DYI guy, or what?    Also, be careful how you use the term "consultation."  That's also hobby-speak for "time-waster."

Totally agree. The greedy  will do as you Mentioned.  The responsible and business minded will make sure she keeps thier appoitmentv/word.  

I totally agree.  
Love the words you used.  Exactly , what  I was trying to say in my post.  

> Did she offer to make amends?

Man, stay out of it, if you don't know her.  Your white armor is showing.

How about you go through the rest of my board posts and decide if I'm a white night.

Big talk.  You jumped in to defend her even though you said you didn't know her.  

Plus four reviews in the last year and no white lists.  You are a real player.

Well if we're going to have a pissing contest then let's have a fucking pissing contest then!  

Sensitive aren't we.

Sounds to me like she should have offered him another slot.

Nah, I just really enjoy a pissing contest when I have a full bladder.

Sorry to hear that. I would never flake and never "double book." Just want you to know there are some providers who value time being cared for; both yours and theirs.

Some of you guys get pretty sad over missing a roll in the hay.  Sure it's a let down, but Jesus get over it.  Cancellations will always be a part of this game.  If you don't like it, then don't play.  Even the most respectful ladies will cancel.