Dear OP: can you give more details... your post seems to have been translated poorly.

I'll rehash this one time.
Spoke after having made a date a week beforehand.
Agreed after she took a few days to meet Feb 14th 10 pm
2 hours in Seattle, her base of business. Agreed to a Sunday
morning 90-120 minutes together unless Saturday night wasn't a mix.
I flew to clients Saturday V-Day and landed 45 minutes early!
Text Chloe I'm available for 90-120 early if she wishes but at least to  
advise I'm in town as planned without winter delays. She says no,  
unavailable. No problem. Client dinner ends 8:20! Texted Chloe if she likes  
I'm an hour early. She texts, "you're very pushy aren't you?" WHAT?!
1 minute later texts "I'll meet you at 10 pm as agreed in the lobby"
30 seconds later, "I'm uncomfortable and do not want to see you"
End of story. I have 32 oks on p411 and plenty of history on TER and was
polite, considerate and had looked forward to our dates. I think she is WHACKED
and she isn't hot so no big loss. Good news though, I met a civvie beauty queen and had  
the time of my life!

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"And she isn't hot, no big loss"????  Then why did you book with her in the first place.  
Shit happens, move on

You texted her not once, but twice, to see if she wanted to see you early.  

He was hoping she would have time earlier not demanded to meet earlier
H hoped an hour early might work in this case no
But why cancel on someone which MANY ok's on P411 simply for wanting to see you and hoping earlier may work?

The way I read his response was she had already informed his that she couldn't met him earlier than the agreed to time. So the second text wasn't going to alter her previous response.  

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of an untrustworthy or loonie provider in the event doubles or referrals matter.
Goldie is 100% correct there is nothing wrong with a Winter traveler alerting a 2 two hour date provider of landing in her city without weather dealy and that more fun time is available as well as alerting the provider who knew of a client dinner that could go OVERTIME indeed the dinner and appointment ended earlier by an hour, more fun time?!
To be shut out was a blessing and quite frankly if you look at the ladies I reviewed the past 3 years they are almost ( or were at the time ) gorgeous. CM isn't the same caliber but I was in the mood for low key. Seattle isn't exactly NY Miami Beach LA or Paris.

You obviously have seen some great girls but  just because a girl is not from one of the areas you mentioned does not mean they are beneath others and I have seen some great girls in the Seattle area.

Only words from many years of observation & experience. There are some terrific ladies in Seattle but relatively speaking very few. If Asians, native Americans, eskimo and overweight ladies are your taste then get up there asap, plenty of restaurants too, More dining and drinking establishments per capita than any city in America.

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Did you make a wrong turn? Everyone knows to avoid Houston at all costs right lol. And I have no problem with you calling things as you see them but as you said there are diamonds in the rough!

I had a GREAT weekend without her and the point is to use this forum to expose the unreviewable and alert those whom the information may provide an opportunity to see you rather than waste their time. Judging by your comment you are a waste of time too. BLOCKED

If he's being pushy or rude, or if I feel a little annoyed or angry with the potential client, I certainly will cancel the appointment.  I find it impossible to be intimate with someone I'm not feeling 100% good about.

First, welcome to San Diego. If you're a returning visitor welcome back. Please enjoy your time here.

His side: A
Her side: B
The truth: somewhere in between  

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To me it reads as backpedaling - saying he initially made her uncomfortable which, to me, if were true would mean not scheduling with him at all. Then again, each lady has her own comfort zone and maybe being uncomfortable is just part of the biz and think nothing of it till you just "aren't in the mood"...  

Odd statement & he still wanted to book.  Sounds, like everything happens for great reasons.  Not sure why he would post hate if he found a beauty queen...get over it.  Your not hurting this providers business.  No one, likes catering to jerks.  When they are rude & pushy.  Regardless of how many Okay's, or whitelists you have that gives you no right to think your better, than the rest.
 

I'll reiterate my earlier statement, when you play by the rules - her rules to be more precise, then these types of situations don't occur.  It can't be any more simpler than that.

A meeting needs to occur to have a review go up so there is in fact no way to know if you have or have not done this before based on reviews. I don't know or care if so I'm just letting you know that info is not accurate. Just a heads up  

Posted By: chloe_may

Thanks for defending me, Happy Camper.  
   
 Goldie, I'm not sure there's anything I can say to get you to believe me. I'm sorry you think there's another side to the story, but there's really not. If I was a continual flake like he has suggested, my reviews would mention it. There's really no justification for this thread at all.

I have nothing to say. I just wanted to be part of the longest thread I've seen for a long time.

For the record, I spoke with CiM and she "felt very comfortable" with our dates and left open the possibility of a Monday morning as well. I did not book any other dates in consideration of the potential for multiple dates with her. I BOOKED a flight and the suite was more for HER comfort until she emailed "her rates are $100 less for in call and she is just a mile or a quick 15 minute walk away" so the "negotiation was only her preference for in call and that I would have to pay for her coming to me. That is the extent of the email and not a negotiation of rates. Compare her rates with providers I have seen including Seattle and there is no reason I would expect to donate less for her time. She is cheap for a reason and it all worked for the best. However this forum isn't to defend or accuse but a place where a flake can be subject to exposure and this semi pro completely bailed on Valentine's Day. the day after and that Monday morning President's Day.
So hobbyists beware.

You can try your best to convince others, but by your own admission your claim is baseless.

He key not be credible to YOU but I can't imagine a reason not to see him with sooooo many P411 OKs and so many whitelists here. He obviously won't be attacking me and with OKs from some VERY HIGHLY RATED LADIES I would feel confident he will be respectful with my time and body. In fact: I may offer him a discount if he were to book a multi hour to make up for other provider issues he has had to endure!  

After I saw his comment to another lady on a different regional board,.that cemented my perception of the individual in question. That comment has since been removed.

I suppose but you should define your perspective of credibility. What to you is credible here if not multiple whitelists, reviews, post history or 411 OKs? I just am curious why you would have commented that he has "zero credibility" because if you don't find that credible what are these forums for?

I've never been accused of your claims and YOUR PERSONAL ( which is it you or personal ) pet  
( we animals here? ) peeve that someone texts you they've landed early (and since you claim to see only one client a day) and would YOU care to meet early AND again later is cause for flaking.
I think it is important everyone know this before booking with you. Furthermore cancelling at 8:40 pm when a second text 5 not 6 hours later that my client meeting had ended and did YOU wish to meet earlier is another peeve?! Being late is sometimes unavoidable but offering to pay you thousands for your time is a pet peeve and cause for last hour cancellations?! Good luck kid you're going to need it. This thread is over. You were wrong and suffer from foot in mouth syndrome.
Btw I never mention explicit acts and always include "time and company" as it is ILLEGAL to pay for the former so watch whom you accuse and what you say in any forum. Your profile already displays your rates for additional fictional services.

My error was proper communication, an offer later in the evening to make a 10 pm earlier ( to 9 pm ) IF CONVENIENT for the provider given we also had plans for an 8 am Sunday 2 hour date and to have contacted her in the first place as proven by the events that unfolded. This regional board allows one to alert other members, since we cannot review a no show or a flake of the greater possibility of what indeed took place, especially without regard to having the feedback, WL and p411 OKs. Those that have less experience or resources might have been disappointed. For providers who rely upon feedback, referrals when touring and the like the regional board is a place to share the experience as the Ad boards are not the venue TER offers reviewers. As to the unhappy camper with 3 reviews, his ineptitude is exceeded by his ignorance. TM and I have communicated for months, I was PM'd by another who acknowledged KL is part of a "group" and I have physically been in TM's in call and she doesn't offer in call! Goldie, I appreciate your ability to have an open mind and I hope that expression isn't considered an illicit comment by the butchie in the PNW. : )

Chloe May is the best!

But jc316, you sound like a dick.  Stop crying and find someone else.

asshole it's for your benefit. Someone else? see todays review

It's usually because they lack any sense of maturity and even less class.

I don’t have a dog in this fight either.   I only sought justification and clarification as to why the OP made the original post.  There was zero information provided.  As you well know, those kinds of statements have a profound impact on a person’s reputation and livelihood.  So they need to be well thought out and truthful in their justification.  

Some things are better left unsaid.  Seems some people don't know how to move on.  Sorry about all this negative publicity Chloe, there are a lot of us who are respectful, hope you had a nice visit despite all the squabble.
JB

Goldie is always quick to drag a provider down. I actually think she enjoys doing it. I'm sure the smart providers are taking note of this jc316 guy and putting him on their "do not see" list. At least she canceled on him instead of blowing him off. So now a provider isn't allowed to cancel? She didn't feel comfortable seeing you, END OF STORY.  

Didn't you get the memo? That rule only applies to Goldie.

Hey shit for brains go fuck CiM this post is beyond your comprehension.

Only that I don't understand her perspective and that from my seat I would not have acted so.
My only comments were letting her and others know the review policy requires a meeting to allow a review to be submitted...

I love swooping in when someone is having a missed connection or needs a pick me up!
It's a good feeling spreading happiness (and my legs)