Need your suggestion. My ATF is missing. I'm worrying about her, even thinking about if I need to contact police for her missing.

I texted(she can only be contacted by email before the first meeting, phone number will be given until the meeting date or day before) her 2ish AM Tuesday(21st) asked her if we can meet couple days later, which was either Thursday or Friday. Hours later, I got her response that she'd be in town the whole week. Texted her back, told her okay.

Wednesday(22nd) night, texted her again that I'd like to meet her Thursday night, then, I heard nothing back from her at all from that time point.
I've been calling, texting, and emailing her countless and asked her to let me know what's going on I'm worrying about her safe. Still, got no response.

I'm even thinking about just go to her apartment(she's meeting clients at her high end apartment in little italy) but I don't know if that's a good idea.

Heard terrifying story about working girls and this girl, my ATF, is a sweetheart  didn't do too much screening or too secured. Worrying about if she encountered anything terrible. Please give me suggestions how to deal this situation.

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I would suggest to not call the police! Burn out factor and personal issues can effect these ladies ability to be there when you want. And that can happen quickly.

I would not suggest anyone trying to contact any ladies more than twice, Countless times is too much. They seem to be pretty good at taking care of themselves.

If she wants to see you, she will get back to you. I have had 3 providers that were moderate to high profile that went UTR and all of them get in contact with me, not me reaching out to them. Most of these gals are pretty sharp when it comes to security, even if they only lightly screen.

+1...hard to help if we have no idea who he is talking abou

I recently had a similar thing occur with a nationally ranked NYC gal I met here a while ago. We had established a rapport after then as can be between a provider and a client. I had a chance to see her see in NYC. We set a NYC time well in advance. I sent her a confirming message that I booked my trip. Then she went poof. I tried being patient and sure enough, she came back to me weeks later with an apology email from wherever she was. Turns out she went to the Far East on an extended break to unwind.

There is probably little need to panic. Such is life in this arena.

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It's Lacey Foxx

Frist, most of us don't like being contacted at 2am so you may have started on an off-foot especially if her  response to you was "hours later" as you say. She told you her availability and you texted her again much later... was it at 2am again? Or even after 10pm? That would be issue number two...

Then instead of sitting tight and waiting to hear back you say you texter her, emailed and CALLED a bunch more? No offense but my guess is she has chosen NOT to respond. We love eager clients but you sound like it was taken a bit too far.

Now you are suggesting showing up at her location??? NO!!! NEVER EVER! Way uncool!

You should reassess your approach to ladies who are offering you services and especially who are your "ATF"... It really sounds to me like you rubbed her the wrong way because if it were me, I would be pretty annoyed and concerned by your behavior.

BUT - if something IS wrong I am certain she has the life skills to take care of the situation and you will hopefully get the whole story once she is back on there radar.  

 

 
But then again I could be wrong... XO GK

Yeah, you're right, that going to his location is insane.
Hopefully won't see her news on the newspaper frontpage.

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I think you've probably done enough - maybe even too much.  Sometimes life gets complicated for providers (and clients too) and she may not have the time or inclination to get back with you.  Time will tell.  In the meantime, you have publicized your efforts and your concerns here.  If she still reads this forum, she will be aware of you interest.  She may well have provider buddies who will let her know of this conversation too.  All in all, it may be time to move on, unless you have specific proof that something has indeed happened to her.

I think you spooked her. Its time to find a new provider .

The urge to run to the rescue is overwhelming, but grab ahold of you self. if she needed (or wanted) your help, she would have called you. Trust me, your probably not on her radar. Any bazaar efforts will usually lead to a blacklist.

've seen her for years.  She's super great when we connect, but she does go MIA every once in a while and flake more often than not.  I just move on down my list.  Just remember these ladies aren't on call 24/7.  And she may be your ATF, but perhaps you aren't hers. Just saying

Well, yeah, I think all you guys were saying right.
Honestly, I felt quite relieved somehow.

banging on her phone at 2am repeatedly. She'll be back in your arms before you know it.