So that's how this works

Since when do you not write a review for a bad session? I thought that was the whole point of even sharing your experience. Nobody's perfect but it's obvious some providers are being praised for more than what they are worth. But that's just my thoughts but what do I know anyway?

My mantra is that if she doesn't want a review, don't write one. For me, some of my associations  with providers have been very personal to the point of being profound. A few dates I would really feel uncomfortable about letting the world know about. You are not a piece of meat and neither is she. It's odd with the money exchange and the time restraints, but other than that, for me, it's been like dating dozens of dream girls.

I suggest striving for mutual respect and equality. Part of that includes you respecting her wishes and hopefully she respecting yours.

It's $250 or so to get VIP for a year. Relative to how much some of us spend on the gals, it's nothing. And you are going to get 2 weeks of TER VIP or fucking whatever because you write a review for someone that doesn't want it?

Not worth it, IMO.

Very careful selection, mutual respect, searching for connections and having a mutually gratifying experience is what makes this fun. In my opine.

If your review is another 10/10 and she has 50 of them, then there is no point.  If your review would show a different rating then you should write it.  I know a provider that asks clients not to write a review.  Then when a less than stellar one shows up, she then calls on those in reserve to write their reviews to bury the lesser one. Reviews have become a system.  How many times have there been a stellar review for a provider and that is the only one for that reviewer, only to then see other reviews come in and show lower scores?  Be honest and write it.

I always read the gents reviews prior to playtime!

If you want to write a review go for it.  This is your TER membership not hers.  Maybe she will learn from her mistakes...

Currently there's no way to sort reviews.  We ought to be able to sort reviews by rating, date, etc.  Some providers have hundreds of reviews and it's a pain to click through pages to look for relevant ones.  We should also be able to search reviews based on certain key words such as bbbj, etc.  I also think we should have a voting system where the reviews that get the most votes float to the top as in Digg.com.  The voting should only be open to members.