Some men share alot with their ATF. There isn't that pressure to impress like when you are on a typical date.
Have you ever felt you were getting too close and it scared you?

Emotional needs can get in the way I'm sure.
Have you ever wanted to be more friends or wish you were dating her, etc?

In my humble experience, the very best sexual experiences are when there is an emotional or spiritual connection.  You can call it passion.  It makes it different from the exclusively physical experience that you could get from jerking off.  Passion can ignite during one date/appointment.  If she's an ATF and you have seen her many times, it's easier to cross the line.  It then becomes a kubuki dance where you are skittering along and over the line, not being completely sure what the other person is thinking.  It can be very exciting and scary at the same time.  Scary because there is that self doubt that she may ultimately be financially motivated ... it's her livelihood afterall ... the potential emotional blow from facing that reality should keep a rational person from crossing the line.  Yet, who among us is completely rational?  That's where the excitement comes in.

by falling in love with every single lady that I see. In fact, I go into every encounter fully intending to fall in love. That's the way it works in my little fantasy world. I fall in love over and over and over, one evening at a time. And what's even better is that she is going to fall in love with me too. That's right, I'm in love with her, she's in love with me, and when our time together has ended, we can go on our merry way, only to fall in love all over again the next time we meet. I've met some wonderful friends in my little world. It's a very nice place to visit.

I have to agree with you on this. There are many guys who only see a lady once, and will move on. Others, and I include myself in this category, will continue to see people that we really click with. Over time, a relationship can develop, at the very least a friendship. It doesn't take much to go from that to thinking "What if...?"

Sexay,

Do you have any reviews here?

In fact, 3 have asked if I'd ever date a provider.  None of them were EXACTLY an offer, but not a far stretch either.  I think I could, FWIW, but haven't and probably won't.

It's not really a stretch to believe that emotions could get in the way of rational thinking, as least for those that choose wisely.  Let's face it, meeting someone that you find attractive and having her pamper you, etc. isn't exactly a BAD thing.