Which of the following statements best describes you?  .......
(This is something I have observed and thought about for a while and am curious!)

1.  I see one lady exclusively (more or less) once a month or less. (If you see someone once a year on your birthday and intend to see her again at that time count her as a regular.)  
2.  I see one lady exclusively several times a month (with or without a "pre-organized $ arrangement").
3.  I have a regular lady but I see others occasionally.
4.  I have more than one regular lady but none more regular than the others.
5.  I don't see any ladies regularly.
6.  I don't see any ladies regularly as I travel for business and prefer to have different experiences every time.
7.  I prefer longer engagements such as multiple-hour appointments or dinner/drinks/playtime.
8.  I prefer travel engagements.

Not exactly any on the list.  I have seen several (7 or so ) five times or more.  Then about twice that number I have seen two to four times. One time only would be a bunch.  I also prefer longer dates, although I don't always get them.

I don't hobby as much as I was used to. But my habit changed over time.

But I think it's dangerous emotionally to see a regular and I've stopped doing that. There are some out-of-towners whose company I really enjoy and I'll see them whenever they show up in town. Since they're from out-of-town, I don't see them frequently enough to call them my "regulars" Also seeing someone too often when you're not in a committed relationship could result in boredom. So I tend not to see local favorites more frequently than once every two to three months. I think it's emotionally healthier that way. Also I think boredom works both ways. I don't think the ladies want to see us too frequently either.

So my question to your ladies is how often would be see your clients and not have to worry about the inevitable boredom?

I'm a 1, I see one lady almost exclusivley and have for quite a few years. She has retired but we still see each other because we are great friends. But she knows that I do on occasion do see someone else.

Three, however I would call it being a creature of comfort more than habit. I see one lady almost exclusively for some time now. It's nice because we know each other well and our time together is effortless.

On the other hand, variety is the spice of life also, so I do get out now and then to meet other ladies.

I'm not sure I'm on the list. I don't hobby at home (it's just not convienent for me), so I only do this when I travel, which is only a couple time a year. I do trvel to the same places, though, and I do tend to see some people over and over again, while also seeing some new people. I guess I do fit into #7 and 8 as well.

To respond to the earlier post about the lady getting bored after too many repeat visits...

For me, the better I get to know someone and the more time we spend together, the better it gets! In fact, it gets better each time! We both can explore each other's fantasies, desires, fetishes(if there are any!), and "hot spots". Each playdate gets more relaxed, fun, playful....

The joy in all of this for me is to make a friend over time.

I agree there are times when the experience gets better on subsequent visits when you connect. But familiarity can breed contempt. If you do this with the same person often enough and you run out of creative ideas for the encounters, they get stale after a while. No matter how fond I am of a provider, I need to find ways to keep it fresh enough for me to feel excited about seeing this person regularly. My experience has always been that if I wait a few months between visits, I can maintain the freshness enough to feel the excitement over and over again. So I agree that with some people that you connect well, you can't wait to see that person again soon enough. But still this is a paid relationship and guys are there for one thing and one thing only. How many different things (or positions)can you do to keep it interesting?

I do not think guys are there for one thing and one thing only.I agree alot of guys are just for the getoff.But actually after several studies,more men are seeing escorts for social and intimate caressing,talking,kissing, and does not always end up with sex.Men like to be made to feel like a king,special.For me,sex is the culmination of all the above and it is a final end to the wonderful time shared with a friend. A glass of wine in a bubble bath,a wonderful dinner in a romantic place,a nice walk holding hands sneaking a kiss,a long slow passionate kiss that last for hours and a wonderful shared massage is way more fulfuling and exciting than a blow job or actual sex that last for 15 minutes.I enjoy the latter, don't get me wrong, but given the two choices I'll take the first for the long run.I really do believe most women will take the first too,way more seductive and caring.Just my two cents. BJN

I pretty much have to agree with you. Although I haven't seen many providers more than once, the experiences I've had with the ones I have seen more than once just keep getting better and better. You become more comfortable with them, you know what they like, and you become more experimentive with them. It is more fun, relaxed, and playful, as you said.

Interesting thread... I don't post much but this caught my eye. I guess I'm a #2 who enjoys the GFE. I am most comfortable with a provider who I can almost see as a girlfriend. Sex is so much better that way, at least for me. Over the years I have met several wonderful ladies with whom I have spent much more time out of the bedroom than in it. Sometimes there are fuzzy lines between business and non-business events, but I have always deferred to the lady, and it has seldom been a problem. Yes, there certainly are times when "fantasy f##ks" are unbelievable, but sex with someone on a more intimate relationship can be just as intense and even more satisfying - that is, for me.