We all definitely see beauty differently.  I am seeing appearance ratings in reviews for many providers ranging from a 4 to 10’s.  That’s a big gap! One provider in particular was someone I saw 9 years apart from the first time I saw her.  When I first saw her I rated her an 8 in appearance.  That to me is a 10 rating for a lot of hobbyists, that’s why  I see 10s ratings for her.  9 years later I rated her a 6 in appearance.  I usually do some research, before I reach out to schedule a session with a “new provider.”  With this provider in particular she has 3-4 different names and when I did my research to look at her reviews I only went back 3-4 years so I didn’t see that I had seen and wrote a review on her 🤣.  

I would think most hobbyists want someone “beautiful” and who offers excellent service.  How many of us guys would schedule with providers when we see appearance ratings with such a big gap, and one with a 4 rating.  For me personally, I look for providers with mainly 7s and 8s.  I think to me that shows some consistency in the providers’ appearances.  If 1/3 of ratings are 5s and 6s then I will pass.  I am also reluctant scheduling with a provider with 5-6 ratings and all of them are 10s.  

Reading many reviews I am also learning about hobbyists with my similar interests.  These are the hobbyists I will consider their reviews to be “accurate.”

Beauty is definitely in the eyes of the beholders!  

The years and the mileage add up, and in your example,  a lot can change in 9-10 years. There are more than a few providers I met 6-10 years ago that I thought didn't deserve the 8, 9, or 10 appearance score that are still out there. The ones that care about their TER score end up delising when appearance scores start falling.
On the other hand, girls who hit the gym regularly, eat right and don't let themselves get burnt out from sex work can hold those 8-10 looks into their 40s.

My Daddy used to tell me this quote and it forever stuck with me.  

I believe this industry can add miles to anyone who does not take care of themselves this means physically & mentally. I am very active and live a healthy lifestyle. I don't see many people maybe 1-2 new souls a month. I prefer little volume because it requires a true connection. I never want to see multiple people in one day it's just not fun to me. Energy exchange is real & look whom you're sharing it with.  

I believe I am a hard 8 in looks with no make up. When I put forth effort by doing my hair & my makeup I am a 9/10. Honestly, I've never been a dog face killer. I modeled professionally with my better half. We did music videos, commercials & print work. I could easily get paid to model now today because I have a certain look & aura that appeals to many.

I do agree with your post because I have gone out of my way to meet providers in this industry by meeting them in person & buying them drinks, and a meal. I am always surprised at the in person experience when reading reviews. I see why many blur their faces. I understand why my smile is intoxicating. We all have different lifestyles. I am a certified MILF & pride myself in being able to live a healthy and active life.

Not seeing everyone who inquires is a blessing.

I agree  
I usually  dont see anyone above 40 and anyone below 25.

Yes, with the provider that I saw again after 9 years, she definitely looked different from before.  Also, in person her body did not look like the pictures in her current ad.  It was a turn off when I was hoping to see someone who looks like the pictures.  

While I was on vacation I had time to read lots of reviews on TER.  I’ve come to the conclusion that many guys that rate the ladies 8 and 9’s in looks where many others rated them as 5-6 really think they are 8 and 9s based on the other girls they’ve seen and reviewed.  There are also lots of guys that repeat with ladies with 5 and 6 in appearance ratings because of the low rates.

For me personally, I need beauty (my standards) first before scheduling with a provider.  I just saw a provider that I hadn’t seen in 4-5 years and she looked amazing.  I agree we all need to include some fitness in our daily routine to maintain our appearance; myself included.  I haven’t trained in a year and probably gained 5 lbs around my belly area 😭