Really, unless one provider absolutely hates another provider who happens to whitelist you, I don't see how being whitelisted could ever be a bad thing.

 
And realistically, she's doing you a favor by not seeing you for a reason that petty, because that kind of pettiness tends to seep into a person and generally spoil them.

And I love when a Lady whitelists me without asking.

That means alot to me that she would do so unprompted....

Thanks for asking!

Xoxox

RocketMan

Thanks

Thanks q.v..
That's really a queen  like posture!!!
San Diego is blessed to have you

do tell how.

I guess that may be good if the hobbyist does not want to write a review for any reason, but the provider is relatively new and needs cred.

I always whitelist my clients after I have seen them and everything went well.  
I like my clients to have proof that they are safe to see, and give them validation on the board.
I do so without them asking, but if they wanted to keep under the radar and not be whitelisted I would respect that as well

This is because there is no prescreening done for members here so I want to only OK people when I feel like I can fully vouch for them.  

GK

I do offer refs as well, in case an escort wants to talk to an escort I’ve seen.

I’m on a I phone ty

Offer of whitelisting by a provider.  I keep my CDL handle anonymous (because he's sometimes an annoying prick).  Many local ladies would not see me is they knew I was CDL, and some that have would be shocked if they knew they have seen me already.  I use my last two independent providers as refs, with their permission, of course. If that's not good enough, then I move on to someone else. There is no one that I simply HAVE to see, and there are more available ladies than I can possibly see in my remaining lifetime anyway.