While reading another post I was thinking, with the reviews and pics of providers us gents kind of know what we are getting.

Wow, what a great and probing question. I really look forward to how the ladies think.

Upon proper screening, I trust that my acquaintances are safe and prepared properly for an amazing experience of lustful fun. Physical appearances have nothing to do with the personality behind it, for me it's the personality that turns me on! Looks at the door alone are never grounds to shut the door in someone's face.

... Unfortunately, you won't get the honest answer here.  At the margin, they would rather have handsome, great personality, and perfect penis than not.  But, they will always take: 1) safety/hygene, 2) financial consideration, and a 3) gentleman over any of these.

Guy can be 2X+ her age and weight and she has to have that smile on her face. How many guys could do the same?

Ladies -  

Here are some observations I've heard and read from ladies in the past;

NY you pretty much summed it up.  My guess is that in terms of looks they prefer a Franklin to a Jackson, if you know what I mean.  I'm not being cynical, just realistic.  This is a transaction in which there are parameters.  Those parameters vary from provider to provider.  Some won't do "young guys".  Some won't see certain racial groups.  Most won't see assholes, at least not more than once.  Smart providers develop a business model that works for them, and then adapt it from time to time according to specific needs.  A major purchase looming in their life?  Suddenly they offer specials, and go a little more high volume than they otherwise would.  This is retail people.  Need money for that vacation?  Then roll out the deals we can't refuse, and in a while you'll see pics of your hobbying dollars hard at work.  All this doesn't mean to say that some providers don't develop a genuine appreciation or even a liking for some clients.  They are human beings with feelings and preferences.  But there are limits, which to a certain extent is what we are paying for.  We enjoy the fantasy, and then we also enjoy the fact that it ends and we can return to our day to day lives confident that we have compartmentalized our needs and that there will be no repercussions for others outside that discreet zone we create together.  I'm not quite sure if the offer of a freebie would be a cause for celebration or consternation.

i find this whole thread unecessary and inconsiderate. Asking a provider what goes on in her mind as she is about to open the door, especially in the USA where there are many more dangers for the ladies feels inconsiderate and somewhat abusive in its intrusiveness. I personally think you pick the lady you pay her, you go to see her have a good time and then as a gent should do, mind your own business and leave. let us deal with the rest and know when to stop with the whole questioning. how about you tell us how it feels like and what you think when your wiferejects you and you decide that once again it is time to go and see an escort because your wife is not giving it to you? Lets talk about that shall we?  

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I get nervous, anxious & excited to see what my date looks like, but would never turn anyone away based on their appearance.

Working in a factory, or some 40 hr a week, boring, dead-end occupation to make ends meet is a tough job IMHO. Getting paid attorney's wages to provide a brief fantasy, not as tough. Not saying there isn't a skill to it, but not high on the "Tough Scale".

are you asking about 'working girls' or just some girls you might meet in a bar?  never met a working girl who gave it away 'free'.  maybe some 'extras', occasionally, but 'no free lunch'.

sorry, but in my experience, wife rejection is way down the list of why we hobby.

Serena-

Define tough.  It's one thing being bored by your job (take it from me)...but to a certain extent, many people in the workplace expect this. at least for a certain part of their lives. You somewhat find ways to compensate. Make friends on the line, go to school for something else, try to get promoted into management. To quote James Taylor, "Millwork ain't easy...millwork ain't hard... millwork ain't nothin', but an awful boring job".

To be a provider for any long period of time, if you aren't blessed with features that make you popular and allow you a certain amount of freedom to set boundaries, you potentially will go through things that will challenge your faith in people much more than the politics of a workplace and being in a dead end job. I'm not going to go into details as I know the sort of replies I would get, but seriously, C1...you and I both know some of the same ladies, and not all of them can manage the freedom that certain ones we know can. Until you deal with the issues some of them deal with regularly, it's hard for a guy to understand just how difficult this biz can be for some.

While good looks can be a turn on ... rarely are less attractive men a turn off ...