Ok, now I like to think that my reviews are pretty clear on my service and what I provide, so I want to really get off on the right foot here in SD. SO I am asking for feedback from you gentlemen.
Ok here goes.
I had a email from a gentleman who was looking for a last minute booking, I generally dont do that as I like a day to check on references , but I had some spare time, I have just got organised with my incall. SO upon him sending me one reference, (I usually like two ladies ref) but his one reference was good from someone I trust, so I agreed to see him in a couple of hours time. Now I had plans to go out at 8 PM so I said best make it 6 pm so there is time and there is no rushing. Thoses who know me, know that I tend to chat and I dont recall ever having seen someone for exactly and hour, its expected to got over.
I send a text then , he proceees to get explicit on the texting as to the details of what he wants, I dont like that on text escpecially when I have not met someone so I cut it short in a polite way.
The gentleman then haggles over pricing, but thats ok, I can deal with that, my price is always discounted for locals, so thats fine.
He then tells me he is on his way, (a running commentry I didnt need but ok, guys get excited)
I proceeded to adivse Im all dressed up in my hot outfit that I will be wearing later, (trying to impress I was, being new in town)
Then I get a abusing message that I am more interested in my going out later and he wants something special, so forget it.

Now its not big deal, but is it me, do I tell too much, I mean I didnt have to say I was going out, he would have been long gone, But I am a chatty person, I always give 100% in my service. I was thinking is tis a SD thing, I mean I thought I was being flexable.
I was thinking maybe he was just a time waster, but his reference was good, so guys let loose tell me what I did that was out of ordinary if any.

I am always amaized at posts like this. I really appreciate the reference check but I am a last minute kind of guy. So I usually contact the lady a day or two ahead of time so she can get confortable. Hopefully when I call last minute a couple of hrs before. she will have time. I will say it is difficult to schedule meetings. I always thought It was bad form to discuss details and services  and that would be a red flag. That is what webs and reviews are for. I am usually just happy she will see me.

One reason for my last minute appts is because I do not want to cancel. I would never want to put a lady through all of that and be a no show. Your only mistake was not getting a firm time.
some guys are jerks and ruin it for those of us who keep our commitments

Don't blame yourself. He had way too many red flags. Especially discussing specifics via text. That is what reviews are for.

i think telling him you would see him when you had other plans an hour to half-an-hour after the date was the first mistake. generally if i have plans later i don't see anyone for about 2 hours prior to my thing so i can have time to prepare for that and not feel rushed or under time pressure during the date. secondly, once he got explicit you should have said, "never mind, you don't seem to know how this works so for my safety and comfort i would like to ask we try to prebook this for a night where i will have more time and that will give you time to research my reviews." third, haggling is NEVER okay once a date is set and i think it's a no-no in general. my policy is if they don't wanna pay the full rate they can see someone who will fit their budget or tell them they can save up or wait for a special.

it's not a SD thing. he was pushy and you were overly accommodating so i am guessing he sensed weakness. YOU are in charge. if you don't do short notice meetings, don't do them. i made that my policy for new clients after one gent saw me same day only to later be unimpressed. had i known the hassle he would have been i would have not seen him at all.

don't sweat it dollface. u tried and thats the best anyone can ask for.