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LonoVeccio 779 reads
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What if you found out one of your female relatives (cousin, aunt, niece, sister ) was internet escorting.
How would that make you feel?
Would you let her know that you know?
Would it depend on the degree of relationship you have to them?

Curious minds...

OX,
J. Loren




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If it was my sister...

I would tell her that everyone has to make a living somehow... and you should use whatever means you have to do so..(brains, beauty, personality, sex)  BUT:  I would really, really, really caution her about the many dangers that lurk.  Jerk/Crazy men, Disease, LE etc.  

And yes, I'd let her know I know.

I find absolutely nothing wrong with this profession.  Just like I find nothing wrong with women using their body to get ahead in a business world.   Again, you use the attributes you have.  

Some people are blessed with Beauty, some Brains, some personality... And some have all three. Much like you.

keg19691390 reads

I have to agree with the other poster. I have no issues with this buisness whatsoever. I think you should do what you feel is right for you. I would point out the potential problems, but I would like to think I would support them.

I would let her know that I know.  Only because i would want her to know that if she needed help in any way that she could come to me for help.  People are intitled to do what they want with there lives as long as it doesn't hurt innocent.  Sometimes we do stuff that we are afraid or ashamed to tell people about.  Including family.  That is why I would let her know that I know.   Acceptance and understanding is crucial in most peoples lives.

I WOULD PROBABLY TALK SOME SENSE INTO HER.....

TELL HER TO BE MORE DISCREET AND COVER HER FACE..

SHE IS A BETTER PERSON THAN THAT...

THEN I WOULD PROBABLY ASK HERE IF SHE KNOWS WHERE KLADIA WENT..

REGARDS

CORTEZ

Okay guys, those are the easy answers that apply to a sister or may be a distant niece.  What if its your aunt or mom who was internet escorting?  I thik the answer, if we are honest, would be different and the would really depend on the closeness and foundation of the relationship and, perhaps, most importantly, the extent to which the revelation changes my perception of the person.  So, if it's slutty Aunt Sue who was always with a different guy and has 6 kids from 6 different fathers, I'd probably say that figures.  On the other hand, if its Aunt Mary, who I thought was a saint and was someone I looked to as a moral guide post, it would be shocking and something difficult to get over, especially if she has the killer reviews that I search for (yep, I'm a hypocrite).  What is defintely the toughest relationship to consider and probably the most realist for the ages of many of us hobbyists is a daughter.  I don't know if I could stop myself from going postal.  Since I don't have a daughter or an Aunt Sue or Mary, and if you are asking me specifically what I would do if I made that discovery myself, my aunts are so old, they would be doing incall at the nursing home (too old to drive for outcall) and, after I stop ROLFLMAO, I'd probably appauld them.

LonoVeccio1194 reads

As you said, there is no stock answer for this one. It will always be different depending on the people involved and the timing/situation. I can't see myself ever judging someone I am close to, family or friend, harshly for being an escort, but my situation is not the norm, as everyone in my personal life knows that I see escorts.

If my situation were different, and also my outlook, my reaction would probably be different also.

Que Pasa1000 reads

If you live in one of those lower states, where banjo playing is considered classical music,  then does that mean it is "ok" to hire your relative who is an escort?

And I thought you were asking whether we would book 2 hours or only one ...

Second cousin, or maybe even first cousin, i'd be tempted to take her up on it.  It would make Thanksgiving interesting, for sure...

The taboo about cousins is genetic inbreeding concerns.  I'm fixed, so it's not an issue.

I started out kidding, but now I'm getting a little chubby.  Hmm...

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