Gents,
So amidst your session and u cannot cum:

1) Will you blame the lady even if she did all her effort to make you cum???...
2) Will you take back the donation because you weren't satisfied because u were not able to cum???...
3) Will you revenge on a lady for giving her a negative review because she was not able to make u cum inspite of she did everything she could to accomodate your end???...

Thank u ahead of time for taking the time in sharing your answers...

No, No and No.

They are paying for your time, not for them to cum, who knows what they were up to before your date. Age, medication, bad chemistry, poor diet, health, alcohol and drugs can all factor in.

You don't need to shoulder any weight or burden because a guy cannot nut.

Personally, I was with one of the highest reviewed providers in Vegas and despite her efforts, I couldn't cum. I felt so bad that I went and saw her again and the same thing happened! She tried really hard and was very nice, but zero chemistry and weird contrived dirty talk and time limits on anal sex just would not do it for me.

Some guys are less mechanical or dog like than others, keep that in mind. I know it pisses a girl off when a guy doesn't cum..so both feel bad. You always should get your money though and it is possible to get a bad review removed.

Sometimes it just doesn't work. I've had one time where I saw a provider and her pics where not even close to her ads. I paid a small cancel fee and I was gone.

It is not a provider's issue is she did all she could. I actually think it is more important to the fantasy that you just make a guy, for a short period of time, feel like he is most important guy in your world.

I found myself in this exact situation years ago. I had not been hobbying for awhile and I engaged a gorgeous provider who I had been thinking of seeing for some time. For the first time ever, I had problems despite the fact that she was beautiful and extraordinarily erotic. She was convinced I would never return because things had not gone well. The reason for the problems was entirely medical.

That woman is now my absolute ATF. We have known each other for over a decade and now have a great (and I am happy to say) "working" relationship!

So I don't blame the other party UNLESS it is clear that they are simply so disinterested that I cannot deal with the situation - and even then, I try to be as accomodating as possible.

This hobby is not about if he cums or not - nor if she cums or not.
It is an experience of companionship that can lead to sexual pleasure.
When both enjoy it enough to cum, we find euphoria.
If you make it about if he cums or not then there will surely be disappointment now and again.
Make it about sharing time, intellectual intercourse and body worship and I bet you'll never have a bad experience ....
XO
Chloe
P.S. I guarantee my fees so have no problem returning a donation if he is unsatisfied - I've not had to return a donation and plan to never have to!

Diwata, my dear, I cannot imagine anyone not being able to cum with you.  I know how much effort you put in to satisfy your guests.  

And, no, I would never take back the donation, under any circumstances. Doing so might unleash a shitstorm of drama that I'd rather be without.  I'd write a negative review, if I thought the lady gave a crummy effort.  But if our session was disappointing because the lady and I didn't "click", then I just won't write a review at all.

Well said Chloe.  Enjoy and savor the journey and you'll have a great time regardless of the finish.

I may be killing myself by posting this but I have always had to finish myself off. Every session, every single time. Nothing against the ladies I have been with, just how things have always turned out. To be honest, I don't care. What I really care about is having as much fun as possible with the person I am spending time with. Fun is being able to chat with a beautiful woman, laugh, explore each other and make the most of the time spent. Am I going to be pissed that I didn't finish? Did it take away from my shared time with the lady? As long as I put in every effort I could to make the most of the time spent and have as much fun as possible, then I got what I wanted. The explosion at the end is always icing on the cake....or

I've had that happen to me a couple of times over the years but I don't blame anyone. I'm bummed that I blew my money and not my load, but  I chalk it up to nerves.

Agree
No, No, and No

Any moneis given or donated are for the provider's time. PERIOD.  EOM squared