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No.1FBSMsandiego 2255 reads
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first: may be = maybe
second: IHaveAReallyuGoodMemory... having search on TER board can help with memory when everything is stored and there to gaze upon at your leisure

ho-kay

real life comes into play, sure, but there is a 3 month window after a meeting to put in the review (but perhaps it was not approved and instead of resubmitting the guy just thought "aw fuck it")...

being opinionated should have little/nothing to do with being reviewed if the gent had a good time and smiled all the way to the car. i mean are u suggesting if an average/poor review went up i would have an opinion? well, of course, duh. i would be surprised as heck, but that would never happen, to be sure. so my confusion remains. what does being opinionated have to do with people (not) reviewing me? with the system a review can be posted under an alias so there is no risk of him having to hear my opinion should i be pleased or put out by the review....


more input please and thanks!

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No.1FBSMsandiego1565 reads

ok

so this is a general question for ladies/gents:

why say "is it okay if i review you" and be excited that i like to post "new review" on ads but then never submit a review?

reviews help us as ladies as well as u gents.
not that i expect every guy who reviews to review every lady they see, just curious as to why you say "i am looking forward to reviewing you" then no review...

something i was pondering for a few months.
:)
cheers

-- Modified on 12/16/2011 5:18:11 PM

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IHaveAReallyGoodMemory1023 reads

First reason could be that his regular life got in the way of his hobby life.  Put it in perspective.

Second reason could be that he knows that You - MilaTequila - are very opinionated when it comes to almost anything including reviews.  Remember this posting -

http://www.theeroticreview.com/discussion_boards/viewmsg.asp?BoardID=7&SortBy=DateCreated%20desc&SearchType=1&Author=milatequila&DayFrom=300&DayTo=0&MessageID=61617&frmSearch=1#61617

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SantaKlaus1199 reads

so whatever a client says after a date is suspect.  Ho Ho Ho !!

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jake2you1188 reads

when your hard...........your soft
when your soft........your hard

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QueenBia1169 reads

Sorry, but if they do not follow threw with what they said, then why post about it?  They may turn around & post a negative, or not such a fabulous score that you can not brag about, so why sweat the small stuff?


I have a small amount of reviews for being in the industry, so long.

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No.1FBSMsandiego928 reads

and it has been more than 3 months since our meeting (the person I am thinking of) so for him to get vengful when he wasn't called out nor was anything mean posted so his motivation to do so would be null (lest he be a jerk but he was quite nice).


simply looking for an answer (if a good one is out there) but who knows why people do as they do.

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No.1FBSMsandiego2256 reads

first: may be = maybe
second: IHaveAReallyuGoodMemory... having search on TER board can help with memory when everything is stored and there to gaze upon at your leisure

ho-kay

real life comes into play, sure, but there is a 3 month window after a meeting to put in the review (but perhaps it was not approved and instead of resubmitting the guy just thought "aw fuck it")...

being opinionated should have little/nothing to do with being reviewed if the gent had a good time and smiled all the way to the car. i mean are u suggesting if an average/poor review went up i would have an opinion? well, of course, duh. i would be surprised as heck, but that would never happen, to be sure. so my confusion remains. what does being opinionated have to do with people (not) reviewing me? with the system a review can be posted under an alias so there is no risk of him having to hear my opinion should i be pleased or put out by the review....


more input please and thanks!

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IHaveAReallyGoodMemory994 reads

Out of curiosity ... why did you change your board handle?  I think if you answer that question then you have answered the questions you threw back to me... :)

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QueenBia834 reads

There isn't & if there was I would think that a CMT permit would be required & your reviews would need to reflect that an actual massage was given during the session.

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No.1FBSMsandiego2820 reads

a few things doll:

1 - how would you know if i had a CMT permit or not? having one is not the issue, but trying to make it an issue because of my awesome reviews is kinda cute. ;)

2 - i do massage when requested but where is the rule that i must do one every meeting to be a FBSM provider? link please :)


no, there is no official list for FBSM ratings, but if u filter your searched to no sex and no bj you will see i am the top rated massage in the nation.... actually in the world, LOL according to TER....

honey, it's okay to have lower ratings than a massage-only (or non fs/bj --- however u like to call it) provider. it is not okay to incessantly attempt to put others who are doing well in business in a dimmer light.


maybe u can contact support and request them to require all ladies who don't offer FS/BJ to have a CMT permit? otherwise this just simply isn't the place, but your input was interesting.


MWAH stay warm this winter

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No.1FBSMsandiego1372 reads

which is how i learned i was the top! w00t!

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OtisSpunkmeyer877 reads

Does this this exist or is this more of the self-aggrandization that you are known for?  If the list does exist please show us...  Post a link to the list and not some hand-written list you made up. :)

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Waztint1380 reads

Methinks it wont be long before you'll need another name change......

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OtisSpunkmeyer1245 reads

I couldnt agree more.  I mean here's how I look at it ... If I want to be corrected, ostracized, brow-beat, pissed on, bitch-slapped, etc.  I might as well just pay the ex-wife some money.  I thought being in the hobby was supposed to be fun?

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No.1FBSMsandiego1357 reads

search reviews

adjust average ratings to be between 8 and 9.9
adjust services to be SEX = NO and BJ = NO

search

average review score is posted to the far right on the list by the names

i am 8.5 and have the most reviews for non-fs/bj providing (aka FBSM weather or not a massage is involved)... there is one other 8.5 (but has much fewer reviews than myself... more reviews means i have more credibility and consistency so i am higher rated on average) and the next highest is 8.4 average.


all u gotta do is look and u will see.
i am the best according to reviews and all my fans.

now back to the topic at hand:
reviews, when do you NOT write one after saying you will.

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OtisSpunkmeyer1375 reads

I think you would be enjoyabloe to be around.  NOT!   Fortunately, I would rather spend my time at the dentist getting a root canal.  You have a horrible attitude.  Maybe your services make up for it but not in my world.  Good luck to you and I am happy to see you are at the top of your made-up list.

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No.1FBSMsandiego945 reads

and honey, guys that spend this much time blogging are likely not my type anyway.

guys that work for a living and don't get emo about blogging are my kind of quality dates, not high school-esque guys with too much time on their hands and a vendetta against some poor girl you don't know and who has done nothing to u.



as i said there is no actual list BUT i am still the top rated massage-only (non fs/bj) provider on this earth according to TER so neener-neener-neener :P heehee

i'm not gonna let u get to me! bwahaha! i am rising above lalalala...
mwah


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Karmaisabitch920371512 reads

A lot of regulars on this board comment how "dead" it is but many of those same people are so unfriendly in their responses that it prevents any kind of real open dialogue with the entire community here. You can see from the number of reads there are hundreds more people reading posts but none of us want to participate nor are we encouraged to by the constant snarky replies by many of the few regulars. I've been on this board since before many of you could spell TER and am top 100 in reviewers should you doubt my validity.

I find this thread particularly irritating that Mila started what seemed to be a very basic thread / question and it ends with her being slammed wtf! I dont care that TER hasnt created an official category for FBSM. I have to give Mila props for doing the research and using the few tools that TER has provided to all here that she is the number 1 rated provider in her specific nitch. There is no reason to slam her for promoting that fact within the guidelines of TER. As an entrepreneur and small business owner myself I would do the same thing if it was me. There are limited areas in this hobby to market yourselves and TER happens to be one of the best ways she or other providers can do this and being the top in her specific category is definitely something she should promote. Kudos to you Mila - hang in there.

Go ahead start slamming me - I expect nothing less........

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OtisSpunkmeyer983 reads

Actually Karma, I have been around here probably just as long (if not longer) as you back when TER was a gleam in the Blue Pond eyes.  At any rate, I wasn't slamming Mila.  If you want snarky remarks then just read her responses to most any thread.  She is a smart-ass and many times for no reason.  Now if you want to dismiss that, go ahead but I let all her responses stand on their own.  I am only going to bring to light what she has said and what she has done.  In a way its the old "give 'em enough rope and they'll hang themselves" as far as I'm concerned.  While I am not a small business owner I do empathasize about the marketing aspect but LETS BE HONEST.  For me, Mila MADE UP this whole 'NUMBER 1' thing by rigging the deck in terms of search criteria.  So ANYBODY can say they are number 1 in you put in enough search criteria.  So if you want to buy into her lies then go ahead but for me she's just another sub-par provider thats hyping her game.  Mila - Here's some more rope ...

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medic-alert868 reads

This Board isn't dead - you want to see dead?  Go hang on the OC Board for a day - do you hear the crickets?  chirp chirp!  I'd offer a moment of silence but on that Board the silence lasts for days. I love SD!

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SantaKlaus822 reads

BTW, well said OS.

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MattClark875 reads

Posted By: Karmaisabitch92037
A lot of regulars on this board comment how "dead" it is but many of those same people are so unfriendly in their responses that it prevents any kind of real open dialogue with the entire community here. You can see from the number of reads there are hundreds more people reading posts but none of us want to participate nor are we encouraged to by the constant snarky replies by many of the few regulars. I've been on this board since before many of you could spell TER and am top 100 in reviewers should you doubt my validity.

I find this thread particularly irritating that Mila started what seemed to be a very basic thread / question and it ends with her being slammed wtf! I dont care that TER hasnt created an official category for FBSM. I have to give Mila props for doing the research and using the few tools that TER has provided to all here that she is the number 1 rated provider in her specific nitch. There is no reason to slam her for promoting that fact within the guidelines of TER. As an entrepreneur and small business owner myself I would do the same thing if it was me. There are limited areas in this hobby to market yourselves and TER happens to be one of the best ways she or other providers can do this and being the top in her specific category is definitely something she should promote. Kudos to you Mila - hang in there.

Go ahead start slamming me - I expect nothing less........
If you truly are an OG on the site, then you ought to be secure enough in your reputation to make this post under your real handle.  Why are you hiding behind an alias?  You're not doing Mila, whose position you're supporting in this thread, any favors by using an alias and calling into question your identity and credibility.

Having said that, I also support Mila's right to use her new handle.  In a way, I think she's being modest.  She could've used #1FBSMinWorld.   Now I've not checked her math, but as long as she calculated it in a reasonable and fair way, I have no qualms with her embracing that title in her new handle.  Like you said, whoever you are, it is just a marketing tool, and a fair one, as I see it.  

FTR, I have no dog (or kitty) in this fight.  I've never sessioned with Mila.  Although I have met her socially, and she was very nice.  Totally HOT, too!  You FBSM guys should go see her, I hear--not from reviews, but from actual friends who've seen her--that she's amazing!  (I might pay her a visit some day, but mostly I'm a FS/BBBJ kinda guy.  If she ever expanded her Menu, I'd be first in line.)

Merry Christmas everyone! :)

Matt

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QueenBia1249 reads

Harley is tops every time I check.  Where is Harley?  Ok I see her on another local SD board she is one discreet, classy lady!

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MattClark1512 reads

Posted By: Madame Patricia
Harley is tops every time I check.  Where is Harley?  Ok I see her on another local SD board she is one discreet, classy lady!
Hey Madame P, Merry Christmas!  

I know you don't like Mila, so I don't want to get between you two, because I've met and like you both. :-)

But in terms of overall average ratings scores, Mila does best Harley, 8.55 to 8.35.  Harley scores higher in looks, but lower in performance, so overall, she's 2 tenths of a point behind.

God knows the ratings system here is far from perfect, and is especially convoluted for our FBSM gals--I still don't fully understand it--but given what the rating system is, it appears to me from a quick glance at the Top 100 list that Mila can credibly say she's the #1 rated FBSM provider in San Diego.  I've not checked all the other cities, but Mila says she has, so I'm gonna assume she's telling the truth that she's actually the #1 rated FBSM provider on the entire planet.  If I was her, I'd think that was pretty darn cool. :-)

Matt

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QueenBia1150 reads

Why would you assume I do not, like Mila?

I have always been helpful to Mila as far as I can remember.  Back when she was apart of another SD board, which she has been banned from.  We sat next to her at the LA M&G.  For you to assume makes no sense to me at all.  Either way I am an adult & I can respectfully, agree to disagree no dislike needed.
I am bi-sexual, so I love to meet the ladies, and yes I have my own personal preference, so I can agree to disagree with the 9's & 10's that are handed out, like free candy canes during Christmas.

Marking plays a BIG part in the posting process, so kudos to Mila for thinking she's #1.  Where would we be without our ego's....



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MattClark1117 reads

Posted By: Madame Patricia
Why would you assume I do not, like Mila?

I have always been helpful to Mila as far as I can remember.  Back when she was apart of another SD board, which she has been banned from.  We sat next to her at the LA M&G.  For you to assume makes no sense to me at all.  Either way I am an adult & I can respectfully, agree to disagree no dislike needed.
I am bi-sexual, so I love to meet the ladies, and yes I have my own personal preference, so I can agree to disagree with the 9's & 10's that are handed out, like free candy canes during Christmas.

Marking plays a BIG part in the posting process, so kudos to Mila for thinking she's #1.  Where would we be without our ego's....
Oh, I'm sorry Madame P.  You're right, I should not have assumed.  I certainly cannot read your mind nor your heart.  I only wrote that because the tone I've detected when you've interacted with Mila, not just in this thread, but in others (IIRC), seems adversarial.  Like when you, seemingly unfavorably, compared Mila in this thread to another top FBSM girl, Harley, by saying that Harley is actually #1, and that she is "one discreet classy lady".  The inference there, was that Mila is *not* discreet or classy, given what you seem to think is over-the-top self-promotion on her part.  

But if I inferred incorrectly, I'm truly sorry.  It's so hard to *hear* tone when reading someone's posts.

Merry Christmas, darling...and smile 4 me!

Matt

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