Elegantelise stated recently that she sees no more than 8 patrons a month. Maylea probably entertains that many a day. (OK...I'm exagerating. Maybe.)
Just wondering what the average would be for some of San Diego's TRUEly best. Ladies?

Almost 300 reads and zero responses. I thought that such a topic would be of great interest to the hobbyist. Boy was I wrong. Maybe no one REALLY wants to know.........

I don't have a problem answering this. When I was working, I averaged 4-12 meetings a month.

I often wondered the same thing.  I wish more ladies would post their honest response.

I know of traveling girls that have a date for every 1-1/2 of the day, 9:00am to midnight.

There are other travelers that will only book two dates a day.

I think mostly, the ladies that I've known have one date a day, perhaps two if they're up for it.

And, most of us take a 7-10 day block in the month NOT to date.

I think you're right though, most don't want to think about it, unless it's very few.. though this is stupid, people get stigmatized.  Why is it silly? Well, because we ALL shower/clean up squeaky clean prior to every date, whether they be spaced an hour or a week apart.

xo
Elise

Don't think for a minute that a provider will tell you the true number. Nobody wants to know that they are the second, third, fourth, etc for the name. Why do you think it's so hard to get appointments with the best providers....it's becuase they are booked solid. But they aren't going to say sorry I can't see you becuase I'm seeing 4 other guys today...instead they'll say they are getting their hair done, going to school, etc, etc etc.

It all depends.  While working for an agency years ago (and paying thier very stiff fees), as many as six appointments could occurr through the night.  We had to check in by 5:00 PM, and did not check out until anywhere from 6AM to 9AM sometimes.  As long as calls were coming in, you kept going.  Required to be available 5 nights a week.  As an independant I came out 2 years ago and was only doing incall 2 days a week while working full time.  Then I got busted and that changed my approach.  Now, I have cultivated my approach to about 2 to 5 dinner dates a week.  And occassionally see a favorite during the day.  So it depends on your situation and needs.  Your approach.  If you have developed a good reputation, multi hour dinner dates are the way to go.  You get to spend quality time and conversation with someone who is traveling and tired of eating alone and knocking around hotels.  There are more gentlemen than one would know that fit this category and it is a very nice way to participate.  I feel this is the most efficient way.  Much nicer than doing the incall thing for 2 days and seeing at least 3 sometimes 5 clients in one day in order to justify the price of accomodations.  So sometimes it is difficult to book with a popular provider because she DOESN'T see several clients in one day.  Of course it would not be fun to say it is because you have so many lined up in one day, but not always the reason you can't book with someone.  There are many approaches, and misconcenptions in this arena.  I would have to say that it is very different for each approach.  I for one am not above seeing several in one day, I have done that.  But not anymore.  There is no average across the board because there are so many different scenarios for the different providers and what they are trying to cover regarding thier various needs.

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I doubt it can be generalized that providers "ALL shower/clean up squeaky clean prior to every date", as Elise suggests.

I've met with a number of providers who, before I left after the session, had completely dressed back into the clothing that they were wearing upon my arrival, without so much as taking a sponge bath.  I knew in some cases that they were high volume providers based on the number of their reviews and the difficulty I had in booking.  Needless to say, I didn't see them again.

Now why would someone go through this trouble if they are going to shower after I leave?  I would expect them to see me to the door in either the buff, lingerie, or a robe, unless they just love their outfits (including skin tight jeans) so much that they love to put them on twice as much as they have to.

Obviously I don't KNOW what they did after I left, I just have my doubts, and nobody else KNOWS either.

For many, this vocation gives them TIME freedom, and they enjoy having the freedom to do the things they either need to or want to which could be anything from another job, school, being at home with the kids, or, I have a few friends who are caregivers to an ailing parent.

In the beginning, I had a full time job already, then left the corporate world because I bought a business, and enjoyed choosing how to spend my day.

Only when I offered incall specials did I see more than one gent a day, and the most was three.

I preferred to devote my time to just that one person, and could maintain the fun, carefree attitude as well as the excited anticipation when choosing to visit no more than three times a week. For me, that's what 'worked', and it's all about 'what works'.

I used to be a male escort...long time ago. While I was in the porn business i worked at night at a private club. back then there were no cell phones, no pagers, and no internet. Most ladies worked agencies, pimps,  or walked the streets independent. The married ladies came in, basically selected a guy from about 10 usually. It was a bar atmosphere. I had several working lady friends. They would turn 3 to 6 guys a night for from 50 to 100 each. I would have to spend 4 hours on average with a lady to get around 100. Sometimes a regular could tip you to 200, but still you could only count on one job a night. Rarely could you work in two ladies. Also, for a guy...there is the performance standards too. A second date could count on me, but not on a big load (sorry to be so graphic). So, if the lady was into that, better let another guy have the job. Yeah, I know what you are thinking...we did drink raw eggs like crazy. I was never sure that even worked. This was a time when there was no Aids, and Herpes was your worst enemy. Getting the clap was very rare. Use of condoms was unheard of in the porn film world, and rarely did we guys use them. As Herpes progressed into a huge scare, we started using them. makes you wonder how many rich men in Frisco have kids that dont look like them. Most of these ladies were older than us (35-60), and had even older husbands (60-80).

No, there are no films still out that you can see me in. You would only see my cock anyway. I was only a stunt cock, a stand in for a guy whose cock did not look good on camera for penetration shots, or was small, or to extend the penetration scenes. Mostly I did loops...those nasty looped films in the jack shack booths from long ago.

Why do you think that so many of the reviews guys post on here complain about clock watching? It's becuase the providers have the guys lined up back to back. And to sedona, elise and jenni...you three may be the exception to the rule. But then I've found that the providers who contribute to this board on a regular basis are  in most cases exceptional and more mature/responsible about how they approach their craft. Maybe it's time I paid one of you a visit...

Just because one COULD book every day, a couple of times a day that doesn't mean one does.

It's totally a personal choice how many guys a lady wants to date (and put through the screening, etc.)

Most dates in a day for me was two, and really, I don't even like to date two guys in two consecutive days.  It really cramps my lifestyle.

A couple guys in a week works well, but my favorites don't always want to see me every month, (and the eros ad is really mixed in with more than 100 other girls) so I think my average is 4.  There has certainly been a month where I only dated twice!

xo
Elise

How on earth can a provider say she sees such a 'limited' clientele when she has so many reviews?  Things that make ya go hmmm??

And they were MEMORABLE Sedona (kim)