I just had a hobbyist come over for an appt. and asked for his donation.  He said he never pays upfront because he's been ripped-off twice.  I explained how I wouldn't continue without at least seeing his $.  I then suggested that he place his $ on a table in the room. I said I wouldn't touch the $ or leave the room until we were finished.  He refused and left.  Although I was upset at the waste of time, I wonder if he was a scammer.  Also, on my review profile there are 2 #'s.  Only the 858 # is correct.  I've never seen the 619 #.  Thanks.

it's a risky business for everybody, and some protocol is necessary.

I've never been ripped off in an incall, although it happened too damned often in outcall.  So I haven't done an outcall for a couple years, and probably won't again unless I really know her.

I think you did the right thing.  It should be unspoken anyway.

BTW, where did your listing go?

So many ROBS in Sd with fake ads. Do you pay for a fine meal at an expensive place when you walk through the door? No, enjoying a true provider is like a dining experience. Presentation, preparation, and preformance determine the level of enjoyment! I place the money in plan view on MY side of the bed as I disrobe and hand it to the lady at the end of the date only.

... so he doesn't waste other escorts time either, by posting this incident and his contact info on NationalBlacklist.com  It's a new site designed for escorts and their safety.

It doesn't seem like the guy jeopardized her safety at all, so why are you suggesting that she should put him on a blacklist? If she wanted the money upfront she should have said so in advance of the appointment. I for one think it's safer for all involved that money NEVER be discussed during a visit and that it changes hands after the act. This of course involves trust which is hard to establish for a first time appointment. And that's why I stick to my regulars and rarely try anyone new.

...... early during my learning curve I was ripped off once and it obviously involved someone I had not met before and the "donation" being required up front. Everything went south from that point until I sent the "lady" packing. It was an expensive lesson, but one I will not repeat. Since that bad experience, I have had the privilege of making some very special friendships with some very well known and well respected sweethearts.............and none of them have ever requested a donation from me...........However, the donation for our time together always discreetly appears before my departure. Both parties just need to do their homework in advance.........

Your idea of money on a table that you don't touch seems ok, I guess.  But I'm really nervous about seeing someone new, having them immediately ask me for the donation.  I start to hear sirens in the background.