I prebook like a good student with a visiting person from zoneville (maybe thats the prob).  Confirm a morning appointment for monday.  Send texts both sunday nite and monday morning to confirm. Crickets.  Our appointment time comes and goes. Finally get a text saying sorry, couldnt check in early...OK, been there, done that. I reply, sorry too, maybe another time.....no reply..... Here's my confusion,  I just see a new post  by her today. Evidently she is still booking.   Why didnt I get some sort of offer to make it up text? After all, it wasnt my problem to begin with.....where is my thinking screwed up? Old story, same ending....

I don't think you screwed up at all. It's probably her who could care less. The lack of communication could maybe mean she didn't feel you were worth her time.

Maybe you should take your own advice.

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She may not have offered you a "make up" or "special offer" because she didn't want to take that cut and instead could fill your vacancy with a full rate date instead of having to take the loss. Touring is costly and the goal is to make the trip as "worth it" as possible.

I should have learned.....but my little head was thinking again.....and again, a San Diego lady came through in a pinch and made my day.....

Glad it worked out.  

But it fails me that providers fail to understand the difference between men and women when it cums to a failed date.  
For the provider it is pure economics.  Dont say its anything else.  
For the hobbiest it is time wasted (i block out 3 hours for a 1 hour date, it is the physiological build-up and crash, and lingering effects.  
I was not looking for a freebie GK, just a little effort to make it right....like I said, I very well could have been a repeater, but not now.....

Didn't say "free-bie" but if a girl is offering 400/hour for her time and messed up the appointment you're expecting her to offer you a discount of some if re-booking... well my point is that your slot could be filled by a full rate guy instead of having to offer you anything. Would she rather make it up to you for 300/hour or book someone else for the 400/hour.

Goldie, there's more we lose than just time and effort when a girl cancels.  When you decide to visit a girl, you must understand you're sacrificing everything else you could be doing with that time.  If the girl follows through, then that was a good use of said time.  However, a lot of guys here have a large opportunity cost to their time, and therefore lose a whole lot more than just the time for session itself.  

she's inconsiderate, disorganized, and a poor communicator.
she couldn't check in early? gosh has she never stayed at a hotel before? More likely she had a late opportunity at her last venue and never got into town until the next day OR she was light on bookings and delayed her travel to save a night's hotel cost. In ANY case, she didn't bother to contact the OP to cancel or postpone. What was she doing when he tried to confirm?
After she offered an excuse, the OP even suggested a rebooking, she didn't respond, but later posted an ad. This all adds up to poor business practice.  

I dont want extra time, discount, or other incentive.  I just want respect for my time and effort.  Call, text, or email saying "i am sorry, can we reschedule, you will have my full attention and effort.  Thats it, thats all I am asking for...

not to mention at my age i've swallowed a $40 blue pill for no reason... happened to me last week.  even tho the lady was able to see me many many hours after the original appt, the pill had worn off and tho i had fun, i didn't have FUN!

my advice...