just curious. a hobbyist and i have discussed going... was looking for insight from people who have been or things u have heard (please no negativity - firsthand experiences preferred).

who has been?

who goes often?

who even knows what i'm talking about?


shwing! mila

http://www.thads.com/
If you go, let us know what it's like.

I KNOW LOOKS RADDDD! i just really really want some accounts of others time there.
boooooo

I can't comment on thads, only heard what I've heard from friends in military so... I'm sure going as a pair is a whole different night than going single, and sticking to the couples only room is probably best.

there are swing groups who mix it up certain days each month at clubs and hotels, there is lots of fun to get into as a pair. If you do check out thads have fun and share the experience.

I do know that you would be VERY popular there, Ms. Mila!

But in my opinion Thad's is unsanitary and not worth your time. There are a few good swing clubs in OC and LA if you really want to find a good one.
Peace,
Sage

if so do tell. *i'm talking in san diego. commuting isn't a goal.

unsanitary?
please share. do u have actual first hand experience there with the un-clean-ness or is this something u heard? secondhand information is often exaggerated or false if the people who went had a bad time (they'll make it sound lame if they simply had a lame time or dirty if they weren't as comfortable with this sort of thing as they were when fantasizing about it).

i don't wish to commute to play.
i am speaking of san diego and this location.

looking for firsthand accounts PLEASE.

mila

like an online group or just some locals who get together?

i'm not really looking to meet with providers for this (so if ur talking civvi type meet-ups that may be more my speed)...

m

I used to host private parties back in the day, but I recommend you start by doing a google search of swingers in this San Diego area.

Here is a good place to start if you are really a swinger!

http://www.playersxchange.com/

It was several years ago, but I was intrigued enough to do some research. If I hadn't been tired from being in the sun all day I probably would have gone. Thads has been around forever!! I didn't know they were still around.

You need to come play again on mine!   hehehehe

Nudist, or clothing optional couples only resort that has full on swap, orgys that I witness & I LOVE to watch, so it depends on what your interests are.  Plenty of places available to fulfill your fantasies.

and I would agree with Sage.
It is one of the least appealing swing clubs around.. It is , or at least it WAS, one of the ONLY clubs that allowed single guys to enter ( yes, mostly military)  So there were ALWAYS far more men than there were ladies/couples. There are much classier, cleaner places to meet and play if you do some research. Based on my own experience, I would never recommend Thads , most especially if this is your first experience in the world of swing clubs. Good luck in your search. Miss Patricia gave you a good link to start ..
Happy swinging!

awesome! thanks for a more firsthand account!



i doubt i'll be going anytime soon as i like things very very clean so....
i am sure glad i asked.

i am doing more research thankx!!!

I have been to Thad's on a few occasions. The place is not ever clean to my standards so I refuse to return.
Peace.
Sage

thanks lady!

Hey Mila check these links out coming from a true lifestyle player...

http://crave.wildapricot.org/

www.swinglifestyle.com

There are a few other private clubs here in SD. I would highly recommend not going to Thad's. As others have said it is not up to par. It's an older, run down place. Mostly single guys. A lot of the private clubs don't allow single men or are very selective in which single men they allow to attend.
Check out the second link I have provided. It is free to join with limited access but you will find links to many of the other communities here in SD and across the US.

Good luck in your search and if you're looking for a third to join you at the club let me know. Single ladies are like the white unicorns of the swing world LOL

Xo Addison