Well.. it happened.... what an a$$hole...

The Penishead actually had the balls to hand me an envelope with 2 dollar bills and cut up paper in it.... chickenpoop fuddrucker... low low low...

i was sure he was gonna rip me off when he said he had to go to his car.. but he actually brought back an envelope... what kind of crap is that...

He goes by the name of Samuel ******** (edit.. i know).. his email addy is shb46@*****.com (edit again?)... phone number... (760)212-**** (edit... yah.. understandable)...

email me for the info girls... or anyone else that might want to email or call him and tell him how dumb stuff like this is unacceptable... yah.. im pretty miffed...

joi ~



-- Modified on 9/11/2003 5:21:11 PM

Sorry I had to edit your post bj, but it looks like you expected it.  It's unfortunate that there are weasels like Samuel out there.  It will catch up with him one of these days.  Sedagive.

The sad thing is that he will probably get away with it again with some girl who is as gentle as Joi, and it just makes everyone trust everyone else a little less.  I hope he gets rolled.

Joi, I don't know how much you screen or check references, but I would think you either have to do this or count the money first.  Pisses me off that lameos like this guy make it that much more difficult to enjoy the whole transaction.

You go get 'em, tigress!

-- Modified on 9/11/2003 6:32:23 PM

Joi,

That's very unfortunate.  Payment in advance next time?  His wife's cell phone number?  A short bondage session while you count the gift?  

I dunno.  Some kind of security seems in order...

Would it do any good to post your e-mail address so ladies can e-mail you for an unedited version of this do-do head's identifying information?  Also, that would allow gentlemen to get in touch in case they'd like to help you make up for this loss by seeing you asap.  Some will, there are gentlemen on this board.

Annoyed.
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]]post your e-mail address so ladies can e-mail you for an
]]unedited version of this do-do head's identifying
]]information?  Also, that would allow gentlemen to get in
]]touch in case they'd like to help you make up for this loss
]]by seeing you asap

good idea... and thanks...
my email address is [email protected]...

joi ~

what goes around comes around right...

they say that one bad apple spoils the bunch.. well.. i wont let that happen.. just gotta throw out the bad apple...

i screened his name.. place of employment and 'claimed' ter handle.... i really was surprised that he ripped me off like that.... it was soooo intentional... cut up paper...  thats alot of effort...

ive given him my POBox so that he can make good... hopefully he will... if not.. oh well... karma...

xoxo... joi ~

A similar incident happened to me last fall.  This guy used cardboard behind the bills to make it seem thicker.  He is a well respected business man up in SFO.  What a jerk.  Also verbally abusive.  

I understand how upsetting it is, but as you said, karma.  Remember the three fold rule:

"Ever mind the rule of three.
Three times what thou givest returns to thee.
This lesson well, thou must learn.
Thee only gets what thou dost earn!"

So if you are into this type of thing, then technically, we are getting three times back what we did to someone at one time.  And if the worst is us getting shorted some $$$$$, then we haven't been all that bad, whether in this lifetime, or one of our hundreds past.   ;>


Namaste

-- Modified on 9/13/2003 9:18:51 AM

Well... don't feel too bad. Hell, you gained two dollars and got laid, which isn't so bad. When the fellows get ripped off, they lose lots of dollars and end up spanking jimmy, which sucks! It all comes with the territory... better luck next time.

Pecker

The difference is that the guy chose, for his own pleasure, to see the girl who ripped him off (and if he would use TER correctly and exclusively, he would never be ripped off).  The girls see the guys for business, and there is no guarantee that they might get any pleasure out of it, so when they get ripped off, it is just as bad, and at times worse, depending on what the guy is like.

It is sad when anyone is ripped off whether it is a provider or a hobbyist.  When you are the one being ripped off it is small comfort to know that others have been ripped off as well.  However I doubt that providing comfort and sympathy is what you had in mind with your post.