what do you think about a "provider" that is married?

No biggie.  There are more than a few well known providers who are married and a couple that are open about that fact.

I've seen a few providers that were married and felt uncomfortable with one provider.  
She had incall at her apartment and there was a photograph on a bookshelf with the provider and her husband. We were in the living room getting busy and all I could see was that photograph. She only saw clients during the day so I don’t really know if he knew about her daytime activities.

I don't know if any of the providers I've seen have been married. I do know a few have been married in the past, but I don't know if any have been married when I've seen them. I have to say, I don't think it really matters to me. So long as she doesn't bring it up, it's none of my business.

It is just like if a wife new her husband was seeing providers, not too many people would approve,for me it is hard if the girl is married if her husband knows, kinda makes me think he is a pimp,not a good thing.

It doesn't matter to me one way or the other.

I don't really want to know about it, kinda helps ruin the fantasy I guess. That and I would not want to be the guy who is screwing you when he snaps, because you know he's gonna, eventually.

NSF

If you are okay with it, then why should it matter to us, ya know?

I have been with two providers who were married, both working from home, using areas that were separated from the main living quarters.

I have no problem as long as there is no concern about an unknowing husband walking in.  In both cases I was told the husbands knew and circumstances seemed to confirm the providers' statements.

For me there are benefits to being in the hobby in addition to having orgasms.  I enjoy experiencing the wide variety in women's bodies and learning about their sex lives and how they like to be stimulated to orgasm.  Ladies who have husbands add another dimension to my quest of appreciating the opposite sex.

Especially if her hubby wants to join in the fun!  I always wanted to do a MFM sandwich!

If "Mr" has 'issues' with you working