In chatting with a few freinds. I found that overall it seems their experinces have been different with different ladies.(ie. the ATF)
Other times they felt like it was mechanical.
Let's face it. For the most part A inserts to B.
It's not always the pen' but, how you sign your name.
Do you feel the experience to be routine at times? Or does each lady seem to add her own flavor?

Reo you ever find it becomes routine.?

In my hobbying experience over the last 12 years I had 5 gals that I've done significant repeat business with.  In each case our time together got better with repeat visits as we learned what each other likes, dislikes, and what caused the others' toes to curl.  Yes, the excitement of the 'newness' wore off, but it was replaced by the excitement and pleasure of someone hitting all the right spots, and then trying one new spot to see how that worked (better knowledge for the next visit).

I've been lucky, but I've also been a tough screener.  I figure I've sen about 30 women in this hobby, and I've had ongoing relationships with 5.  The rest were weeded out for various reasons (looks, attitude, in one case smell), most frequently for being 'mechanical'.

but I can see how it could. In my case, I don't do this very often, and with a couple of exceptions (of which Jai is one), I rarely see the same people more than once. It's not that I don't enjoy my time with them; quite the contrary. Since entering the "hobby", I've had some of the best experiences in my life. It's just that, since I usually hobby in Las Vegas, where there are so many beautiful and well reviewed ladies, it's had not to want to have as many unique experiences as you can. So for me, since most of the time I'm meeting someone new, it's fresh and exciting. Even when I do meet someone like Jai, that I really want to see again and again, there's usually enough time between visits that it all seems fresh and new for me. I do think each lady brings something to the table though. I've been with at least one lady that, while it was fresh and exciting for me, it seemed very routine and mechanical for her. I find the best ladies try to find something different and exciting about everyone they meet. Let's face it: if they aren't enjoying themselves, neither will I.

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Reo you ever find it becomes routine.?

If it does become routine, then I'll have to quit the hobby.  I don't have the resources to be hobbying frequently so I try to be careful with whom I pick - if "mechanical" shows up in several reviews, then I'm probably going to look elsewhere.  But it is a whole lot more than just A inserts into B.  You can have a whole lot of fun with A and B in other ways and to me this is what separates ladies.  To paraphrase someone in an older thread, attitude is everything!

That would definitely take the word "routine" out of the equation!!!!

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I'm sure there are certain steps I always take to be comfortable. I'm a curious person and love to learn. So, I always find interesting things about the people I meet. I find people fasinating in the many ways they see and handle life.
Not to mention they have their different wants and needs, and I aim to please.
I'm sure I'm don't have a prefect day 100% of the time. But I do know I always try to give 110% to make things enjoyable for all parties.
I guess a 'do unto others sort of spirit.'
Not to mention there is always the 'toy' bag to add a little flavor and mix it up.