I've been a VIP off and on TER for about a year and although I haven't written as many reviews as providers I've seen, some of which ask to be kept private.  The question, is it acceptable to give a provider references of the other providers that one has sceen.  Personally, I don't like to give out my work place, number or anything about the ladies I've seen.  Mostly because I don't feel it violates a trust between provider and hobbyist.  What is the general consenses?

to provide a reference for _____ (the name helps them be prepared for who to expect to contact them).

We go into much more depth about these topics on the National Board (General Discussion) so feel fee to mosey over there occasionally.